Why does a child have tantrums

Tantrums should not be confused with the whims. To the whims of the kids resorted deliberately to get what they want. Children's moods are often accompanied by whining, foot stomping and screaming. A tantrum is a strong involuntary emotional reaction. As a rule, it occurs as a result of the offense caused or overwork. At the same time, hysteria increases if a child is paid too much attention. If adults pretend that they do not notice anything, the child quickly calms down.hysterical childA strong tantrum in a child is accompanied by shouting and skating on the floor. Photo: Getty During a tantrum, the kid performs characteristic actions:

  • screams loudly;
  • stamps feet;
  • rolls on the floor;
  • scratching face;
  • banging his head on the floor or walls;
  • arched arc.

These actions do not need to be afraid, although suchthe picture looks terrifying. Most often, this sight is arranged by children from two to three years. Older children can already express their emotions with words and it is easier for them to cope with insults or misunderstandings.

How to avoid hysteria in a child

The baby must learn to manage their emotions, and parents are obliged to help him with this. Useful tips:

  • Switch the child’s attention at the first sign of a hysterical approach. If the kid is pressing his lips, whimpering and sniffing suspiciously, give him attention.
  • Put the children on time. Small children do not understand what fatigue is, and adults should keep an eye on it.
  • Make sure the baby has enough free time to play. At this time, no one should distract him.
  • Give children the right to choose.
  • Ask your child to do something and praise him.
  • Hug children more often. Tactile contact with babies is necessary.

    • If the child’s hysterics has already begun, you shouldn’tthrow it alone. In no case can not scream or beat the baby. But you can not give in to your child, you need to be strict and categorical. Tantrums are considered normal in young children. But if a child is hysterical after 4 years, and at the same time he begins to vomit, or he loses consciousness, an urgent need to consult a doctor. Anxiety must be beaten when children hurt themselves or are tormented at night from nightmares. In other cases, it is enough to be patient and make it clear to the child that he will not achieve anything with tantrums. It is also useful to know:

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