Recently in the news a terrible story roared: in one of the kindergartens of Shanghai, teachers regularly beat and mocked children. For example, the kids were forced to eat wasabi. Once the video of the "educational process" got into the network. The police had to guard the kindergarten employees so that the enraged parents did not arrange lynching over them. As a result, "teachers" were fired, forcing them to ask forgiveness from their parents, kneeling. But even the police did not restrain the onslaught of moms and dads: some of the ex-educators also had to taste the "delicacies" that the kids were regaining - wasabi. In Russian news, too, no, no, there are examples that children are not treated with care in the kindergartens. And sometimes parents are indignant absolutely groundless. We decided to figure out what could be done with the child in the kindergarten, and what - no. Can they not be allowed into the kindergarten without vaccinations? They can not! But try. And be ready to be persuaded that you will be vaccinated. Refuse - your right. But then you either need to bring a medical officer if you refuse medical advice, or each time sign a refusal. The only thing that you really have the right to demand is to make a Mantoux reaction. It is not an inoculation - it is a skin test for tuberculosis. You can replace it with a diaskintest, blood or sputum analysis.
Photo:GettyImages Any medical intervention, manipulation is done only after the written consent of mom or dad. This applies not only to vaccinations, but also, for example, taking vitamins in health groups, examining doctors, etc. Do teachers have the right to punish a child? - Mom, will you really put me in a corner? - This question, I must admit, puzzled me. But the next one surprised me even more. "Is it true that harm is a disease, and you need to go to the hospital to treat it? The source, of course, is a kindergarten teacher." A lady of the old school communicates with children in this way. To put the guilty one on the “highchair”, send “to stand alone in the house” on the playground. All this is practiced in kindergartens. But when it comes to corporal punishment - definitely not. Not a single adult has the right to raise a hand against your child. It is clear that they will scold - after all, the function of an educator is not only to look after, but also, pardon the tautology, to educate. Another question is how they scold. If these are words that humiliate, offend, ridicule, intimidate your child, there is a reason to intervene. And it is worth talking to the teacher if he promises the baby that he will complain to mom and dad, who will punish him. Leaving him without food, walking, throwing him out of class is also a reason for intervention. Can they not accept a child in a group for health reasons? Oh, these eternal contradictions between mothers of "slightly cold" and "absolutely healthy" children. Some believe that children with snot should not be in a group and infect others. Others - that "residual effects", "adenoid snot" and "allergic rhinitis" are not dangerous for other children. - Do I need to sit with him at home for half a year? One of my friends remarked reasonably. "And who will make a living with him? Of course, a frankly sick child will not be allowed into the garden." Fever, red eyes, choking or hoarse cough, a strange rash - all this is a reason not to admit the child to class. If the teacher notices something amiss in the middle of the day, she will take the child to the nurse and call the parents. Further, each kindergarten has its own rules. Somewhere there is a notebook in which parents note whether the child needs a doctor's examination or not. It is very convenient when you do not understand whether the baby is sick, but you cannot just lose a working day. Somewhere (but this is a rare thing) children are received in the morning by a nurse who decides whether they can be allowed in or not. In general, educators are sympathetic to the residual manifestations of the disease, a mild runny nose. In some cases, they may be asked to bring a certificate from the clinic stating that the child is not contagious. “Because of the obstruction of the lacrimal canal, my daughter had red eyes all the time and accumulated pus,” says the mother of little Katya. - I was asked to bring a certificate that it is not conjunctivitis.
A photo: GettyImagesHave you the right to not let a child who missed two or three days go to school without a certificate? You need medical help from sampin if you missed five days, not counting holidays and days off. But in any case, educators must be warned that you will not come. At least for the calculation of power. There are six very important issues - turn next!
