Recently in the news a terrible story roared: in one of the kindergartens of Shanghai, teachers regularly beat and mocked children. For example, the kids were forced to eat wasabi. Once the video of the "educational process" got into the network. The police had to guard the kindergarten employees so that the enraged parents did not arrange lynching over them. As a result, "teachers" were fired, forcing them to ask forgiveness from their parents, kneeling. But even the police did not restrain the onslaught of moms and dads: some of the ex-educators also had to taste the "delicacies" that the kids were regaining - wasabi. In Russian news, too, no, no, there are examples that children are not treated with care in the kindergartens. And sometimes parents are indignant absolutely groundless. We decided to figure out what could be done with the child in the kindergarten, and what - no. Can they not be allowed into the kindergarten without vaccinations? They can not! But try. And be ready to be persuaded that you will be vaccinated. Refuse - your right. But then you either need to bring a medical officer if you refuse medical advice, or each time sign a refusal. The only thing that you really have the right to demand is to make a Mantoux reaction. It is not an inoculation - it is a skin test for tuberculosis. You can replace it with a diaskintest, blood or sputum analysis.A photo: GettyImages Can I get vaccinated in the garden without my parents' permission? Can not! Any medical intervention, manipulation is done only after the written consent of the mother or father. This applies not only to vaccinations, but also, for example, taking vitamins in health groups, examining doctors and so on. Do teachers have the right to punish the child? - Mom, will you really put me in a corner? - this question, I confess, put me in a dead end. But the next one surprised me even more .- Is it true that harmfulness is a disease, and it is necessary to go to treat it in hospital? The source, of course, is a kindergarten teacher. The lady of the old hardening communicates with the children exactly so.Sazhat on the "stool of the guilty", send on the site "stand alone in the house." All this is practiced in kindergartens. But if it is a question of corporal punishment - definitely not. No adult has the right to raise a hand on your child. It is obvious that they will scold - after all, the function of the educator is not only to look after, but also, sorry for the tautology, to educate. Another question is how scolded. If these are words that humiliate, offend, ridicule, intimidate your child, there is an occasion to intervene. Also it is necessary to talk to the tutor if he promises to the kid, that will complain to mum with the daddy which will punish it. To leave without meal, walks, to expel from employment is too an occasion for intervention. Can not take the child into the group for health reasons? Oh, these eternal contradictions between the mothers of "slightly chilled" and "absolutely healthy" children. Some believe that children with snot should not be in a group and infect others. Others - that "residual phenomena", "adenoid snot" and "allergic rhinitis" are not dangerous for other children. "Do I have six months to sit at home with him?" - reasonably noticed one of my friends. Of course, a frankly sick child will not be allowed into the orchard. Temperature, red eyes, choking or hoarse cough, a strange rash - all this is an excuse to prevent the child from attending classes. If the caretaker discovers something is amiss in the middle of the day, she will take the child to a nurse and call her parents. Next, each garden has its own orders. Somewhere there is a notebook in which parents mark, whether or not a child needs a doctor's examination. It is very convenient when you do not understand if the baby is ill, but you can not just lose the working day. Somewhere (but this is a rarity) of children is taken in the morning by a nurse who decides whether to be allowed or not. In general, caregivers are sympathetic to the residual manifestations of the disease, an easy runny nose. In some cases, you may be asked to bring a certificate from the clinic that the child is not contagious. "My daughter had red eyes all the time because of the impassability of the lacrimal canal and pus accumulated," says Katya's mother. - I was asked to bring a certificate that this is not conjunctivitis.Photo:GettyImagesDo they have the right not to let a child who missed two or three days attend classes without a certificate?According to sanitary regulations, a doctor's certificate is required if you missed five days, not counting holidays and weekends. But in any case, you must warn the teachers that you will not be coming. At least to calculate the food.Six more very important questions - scroll on!