Childfree: 23 phrases that can not be said to childless women

"Gave God a hare, give and lawn," - saying,which personally infuriates me indescribably. To give birth or not to give birth is a purely personal choice, which does not concern anyone. Only me. Therefore, questions like "Well, when the second?" I try to miss the ears. Otherwise, I will say it in response to mucks. We have to admit: the society we still presses on women, considering the birth of children literally the duty of every sexually mature girl. People in general are very interested in reacting to the fact that someone decided not to have children: many are shocked, someone responds to childfree with disgust, someone regrets. Most believe that such women hate children. Of course, they are mistaken. If it's frank: should we justify ourselves for not wanting to give birth? To lie, saying that for health reasons, alas, nothing? It seems that no. In Twitter, even arranged a flash mob on this topic and collected the most annoying things that have to listen to childless women.Photo: GettyImages1.“Seriously? My God, giving up on children is so stupid.” 2. “Now that I have children, my life finally has meaning.” 3. “Do you want to be a crazy cat lady by the time you’re 40?” 4. “Do you think you’re tired? You don’t know the first thing about tiredness!” 5. “You’re just selfish. You only think about yourself.” 6. “Your opinion will change when you meet THE right man.” 7. “So what are you waiting for? Menopause?” 8. “If everyone thought like that, you wouldn’t have been born!” 9. “You’re depriving yourself of the greatest happiness on earth – being a mother.” 10. “And the clock is ticking.” 11. “Becoming a mother is every woman’s destiny. You can’t fight nature.” 12. “I hope you’re kidding. Otherwise, how will you regret this in your old age!” 13. "It must be some kind of childhood psychological trauma." 14. "Why do you need such an apartment if there are only two of you? So much empty space." 15. "But you would have been a great mother." 16. "It doesn't matter who's father it is, have a child for yourself. I'll help you look after the kids." 17. "You may think you don't want kids now, but when you have them, you'll think differently." 18. "Haven't had enough fun? Don't drag it out too long, it will be too late." 19. "Aren't you afraid that if you don't give birth to your husband's children, he will find someone who will?" 20. "You can't understand, you've never given birth." 21. "You don't know what true love is." 22. "The biological clock hasn't been cancelled, you'll want more." 23. "Do you really want to be alone in your old age?" Maybe we've forgotten something? Write in the comments what questions about children irritate you!