In early childhood, parental authority helped to avoid disputes. But at the older school age, it seems to evaporate. The interaction of parents with children becomes explosive.
Photo: Getty Images Here are the top tips for parents to get in touch with their children:
- You need to love your child and tell him about it more often. He should know that in the family he will always be understood and supported. For this, parents are more likely to conduct confidential conversations with children.
- Remember yourself in the teenage period and all thatyou then arranged in your life. Understand, it is difficult to talk, being on the 10th floor with those who live much lower. Come down! So it will be easier to understand your maturing child. Conduct a conversation with parents in your family, ask your mother and father if possible, what difficulties in your upbringing they encountered. Now you can evaluate how their actions were correct and effective.
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- That the conflict between parents and children is notgrew into a scandal, all claims speak in a calm tone. Be clear, firm and short. Be sure to share your feelings, fears and thoughts about this. Here is a concrete example. "You came later than we agreed. And did not even call. I'm upset. I thought we had a trusting relationship. Every evening, I'm afraid that something will happen to you. There are so many terrible stories around! I understand that I can not protect and control you all my life. You are already responsible for your actions. I hope this situation will not happen again in the future and you will warn me in advance. "
- The way out of the disputed situation is together - together. So you will hear the needs of the child and tell him about your own. In advance, find several options for resolving the conflict. The child must have a choice.
- It is clear that all parents want to give children a good upbringing. But it should be done carefully and delicately, so as not to break the personality of the child.
