I always fidget in the chair and the question "whywait, it's time for you already, "or comments like" it'll be too late for the first birth, "or, better still," you'll be old-fashioned, but nothing. "I start to mumble something in my excuse. There's a lot of excuses: not married, alone - well, there's no decent man on the horizon, which is ready to immediately give birth to children with me. Although I want to yell in all my throat: "I do not want to!" Now, specifically, I do not want children. But I plan in two years. This is my decision, and the doctor's task is to help him put it into practice, and not condemn me. Well, I think so. To understand who is right, we asked three questions about planning pregnancy for the obstetrician-gynecologist, candidate of medical sciences, author of the book "Honest Conversation with the Russian Gynecologist" Dmitry Lubnin. Photo:Getty Images Many gynecologists rush women to get pregnant. At what age is it no longer possible to give birth? - The doctor has no right to insist on pregnancy and rush. His task is to give, after the examination, reliable information about the situation and his recommendations. When assessing the possibility of getting pregnant, it is necessary to take into account not only the passport age of the patient, but also the biological one. There are women who have excellent full-fledged ovaries at the age of 30. The doctor sees that menopause is still far away, which means there is a high probability. The opposite also happens - at 32 years old a woman may have only a couple of follicles, that is, there is a great possibility that such a patient's menstruation will end at 40-42 years simply because genetics ordered it, or it is a consequence of previous operations, diseases. not necessary. Yes, the frequency of genetic pathologies becomes higher, and the condition of the uterus may worsen over the years. There is a new blood test, which at 8-9 weeks with a high degree of probability shows the genotype of the fetus and, if something is wrong, allows you to terminate the pregnancy early. But, of course, it is not worth postponing the first birth to an age later than 35 for the reasons listed above, and also because late birth is a risk factor for the development of breast cancer and some other diseases. Specialists often prescribe very expensive women's vitamins. Is it really necessary to drink them? - There is an effect from the use of such drugs if you are a person suffering from vitamin deficiencies. With a balanced diet, all important vitamins and minerals come from food and no additional supplements are needed. If doctors prescribe vitamins just like that, without a diagnosis of "vitamin deficiency", then, probably, they do it only in order to prescribe something. You came to the doctor, how to get away from him without a prescription? The only exception is when the patient is planning a pregnancy. Then vitamins are needed. How old did you give birth to your first child?

• Up to 20 years - and now my best friend and child
• In the period from 20 to 25 years. at 30 I already had two
• From 25 to 30 years - and I think that this is the ideal age
• After 30 years - and did not feel at all strangled
• After 40 years - and do not regret it
• I'll write my own version in the comments

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• Up to 20 years - and now we are the best friends with the child10,1%
• In the period from 20 to 25 years. in 30 I already had two 26.1%
• From 25 to 30 years - and I think that this is the ideal age of 31,1%
• After 30 years - and did not feel hurt in anything19.1%
• After 40 years - and do not regret the 6.7%
• I'll write my own version in the comments6,9%

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