Function "Yes that these adults understand!"Is included in our early teens. Yes, and remains included, only slightly mutating. Therefore, we are often skeptical about the advice of our mothers and dads about the upbringing of children. Like, what's there, your time has passed now is different. Yes, in a different way. But there are things that remain unchanged. And which should be learned from grandparents. Even if they themselves were not ideal parents.
Photo: GettyImages1. Turn off the "supermum" mode Take on all the responsibility and curse yourself for everything the child does, do not. Think only how much you will become happier if you cease to saw yourself thinking "I'm not a good mother" .2. Take time out. Sit down, take a rest and listen to what I say ... Oh, it's not from there. But still calm down and slowly drink a cup of tea. You will see, the world will not collapse. It is necessary to learn to find time for yourself, to give more then to the child. Without this, it's difficult to inspire yourself all the time to be an ideal parent. Keep yourself in hand "They spoiled you completely," we hiss, taking the child from his grandmother, who believes that punishing such a beautiful child is a sin. Therefore, her relationship with her grandson is more trustworthy than that of my son or daughter. Of course, you need to set the boundaries of the series "We do not fight in our family" or "It's time to go to bed." But punishment in any form undermines the relationship with the child, provoking him to the ugly behavior again and again. 4. Listen, do not be angry, love Maybe, it's wisdom, maybe the lack of our trigger "child rebuked - apply authority." But the fact - grandparents often allow the child to bring their arguments and win in the dispute, while the mother is important to convey that she is right. Grandmothers are better able to listen, less to criticize and more to love. Easier, easierBaby and grandparents know for sure: their grandchildren will grow up beautiful people. They have already seen all the stages of growing up with all their quirks, so with humor refer to the new quirks of offspring. Here is your advice: it's easier to relate to all these things that children break apart. Watch your timeOur parents know how quickly childhood flies. Therefore, they want the children to remain children as long as possible. And the choice between, for example, washing dishes and sitting with dolls, a chopper in the playstation and pokatushkami on bicycles dishes is unlikely when it will be in favor. In the end, grandchildren can help in this sad business. Later.
Photo: GettyImages7.Seriously, they are sure that every child is a real treasure. That is why they spend dozens of hours to find a gift to each child’s liking. They find time to listen to stories about children’s problems and troubles. They understand that all their experiences are real. 8. Appreciate the moment Grandparents know that there will be no other time. Most parents of grown-up children look back with regret that they cannot correct some of their actions. That is why our parents try to correct everything on their grandchildren. 9. Love life They understand perfectly well that life is short. Grandparents have already seen their fair share of sorrows and joys. And they understand that sometimes all we can do is grieve together. And until it comes to that, why not revel in life?! 10. Give yourself They will never run out of hugs and cookies. Life can be tough sometimes, and we need to have a place that smells good and has someone who is willing to listen and sympathize. Do you agree, it is very valuable? Of course, not all grandparents have reached such a level of enlightenment. After all, they are people too, after all. However, each of us has that bit of wisdom that will not hinder us right now. And that is great. Also interesting:
