With the consent of the author, we publish the letter that cameTo the editor: Dear Lucy Mikaelyan, I read your response to Nika's letter "My husband visits porn sites" and here's what I thought. You advise them to unite... But how? Nika, in my opinion, tried to do this from the very beginning. And her husband does not want to admit that the problem even exists. From the letter it follows that the husband has sex in one form or another, but Nika does not. It turns out that he does not have a problem, but she does. So what to do? How can she make him (persuade, lead him to the idea) to unite? For some reason, it seems to me that this happens to many couples now. Probably, men are happy that their wives take care of them, create coziness and comfort for them. And they create variety in sex for themselves, namely external variety, like a candy wrapper: the filling may be the same, but the wrappers may be different. In any case, that's the impression one gets, because it's not a problem for one woman to be different, but they want different women…Sincerely, Lyudmila.”
