Adopt new habits. Perhaps, before you twoloved to hang out all night long, flowing from one bar to another. But after the man of your dreams decided to move to your studio, you suddenly fell in love with home evenings, watching movies or TV shows together, and also a delicious dinner. Situations are different, and we have no right, of course, to judge someone. If you have accepted a person, then try to abstract from the concept of “my home” (not in the legal aspect, of course) and make it so that the person also becomes comfortable living with you. Believe me, he feels very uncomfortable. Especially at first. Try to find points of contact. Try to find a compromise with your chosen one, because it was you who invited him to share your space with you, and do not meddle straight into the embrasure. For example, give your man a few shelves where he can place his little things, and be sure to show him where he can hang his clothes. In fact, the man also feels awkward at such moments, so you can, for example, choose additional storage systems together so that they fit into the main interior, and your elect can install them himself.Photo:Still from the film "Mr. and Mrs. Smith"Keep it cleanIt's worth starting with the fact that each person has different ideas about cleanliness and what seems normal to you may be unacceptable to another person. Therefore, immediately discuss the key points and determine who is responsible for what. Fortunately, the area is small and you won't have to spend the whole day cleaning the premises.Agree on who and when occupies the bathroomIt's not even that you suddenly urgently needed to visit the restroom, and your faithful has locked himself in there and, it seems, will not come out anytime soon. It's just that all studios have a feature - the sounds coming from the toilet can be heard throughout the entire apartment. Therefore, you can immediately agree with us that you will, say, simply turn on the TV or music louder when someone goes to the bathroom. Well, or you will not pay any attention to it. After all, we are all adults, after all.Show careShow care. Small spaces are inconvenient because you will have to be together in a closed space for almost 24 hours (if you are not working or are busy with the same thing). But this also has its advantages. For example, if your loved one has a cold, it will be easier for you to take care of him and do everything to avoid catching this disease too. And in general, it is difficult to be alone in studios, so all your emotions and experiences will be in plain sight. You will either have to learn to hide your emotions or let the person take care of you.

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