What does it mean for a woman to betray her husband? How far can a person go in despair and confusion? After all, it's no secret that most of us can not forgive a man, and relations after betrayal become strained because of the loss of trust in a partner. Experts argue that a person who receives everything from marriage is never going to take such a reckless step. But then why do married men change? And are there many people on the planet who are 100% satisfied with their marriage and marriage? Is it really a matter of ideals that are sometimes unattainable? So, further you will learn how to behave after the betrayal of the husband and what should be done to prevent this from happening. Treason of a husband is not an empty word. Behind this lies deep disappointment and recognition of their mistakes. We all admit them, and often the consequences are very negative. Find the answer to the question: "Why and why do men change women?" Is not so simple. Let's try to figure out what's wrong. Maybe the whole reason is male psychology? Or is the problem much deeper? All men change for different reasons. Someone wanted a novelty of feelings, someone is looking for shelter from his faithful, and someone does not even think why he needs it. Most often the man is guided by the subconscious: he tries to find on the side what he does not have in his ordinary life. This is completely normal, because the psychology of any person is arranged so that he is looking for his life for all that is missing. There are no random or sudden changes. The very fact of betrayal becomes real not just so. Before that, special circumstances have been formed, there are a thousand reasons and a thousand plans are being considered. Just to change by chance, giving in to an impulse, is quite difficult. After living with a man for more than a year, even a man thinks for a moment, before rushing into the pool of passion. He will think about whether he will cause pain to his wife or mistress, he will not hurt himself by such a reckless act: he will lose a comfortable home, bringing his wife's slippers and many other advantages of family life accessible only to men. About the second, by the way, he will think much faster. Alas, male psychology is just like that. They value convenience more than feelings. 
So why do men change?
Most often, a man changes because of problems at home. Men are very sensitive and vulnerable beings, besides very cowardly. As soon as they feel the approach of problems, they immediately prepare a spare airfield: first, what would have been to escape from the sinking ship, and secondly, in order not to feel lonely. In fact, men are much more afraid of loneliness than women. That's why they prefer a frequent change of partners. Of course, this does not apply to everyone, but to many husbands. Especially if it's a young guy who does not feel confident in adulthood. In addition, the impetus for betrayal can become a crumbling life, which eventually turns into a real hell. Yes, yes, no one will want to love forever a woman with curlers on her head, a cucumber mask on her face and a frying pan in her hand, unhappy with his salary. Over time, men just so begin to perceive their wife - as an object of negativity and negative emotions. That's why men change loved ones. It is at such a moment that a "fairy" may appear, promising all the joys of life absolutely free of charge and at any time of the day. It is true that later this savior will not be so good and wonderful. But it does not change the essence of the matter. In fact, this situation is very harsh on self-esteem, because betrayal means that you have been neglected, pushed and abandoned. The advice of a psychologist to women often begins with the fact that you should not forget about yourself and your appearance. The manner to behave, keep in company and at home, dress and look is more important than you can imagine. After all, whatever one may say, all relations and marriages are built exclusively on sexual attraction and on the attraction of partners to each other. Of course, in the process of living together as a woman a man and a man to a woman can order podnadoest and cause not the most pleasant emotions. Therefore, it is necessary periodically to change something in oneself, in the home life, in communication and in joint spending of time. This is the only way to keep a marriage afloat. You need to attract him again and show that you are better than others.
How can you tell if your husband is changing you?
The betrayal of her husband, the signs of which are difficult enoughhide, in fact, the thing is not complicated and determine whether your husband is changing it is simple enough. The only question is, do you need such knowledge, and how to live after such an opening? The main signs of betrayal can be traces of lipstick (not necessarily scarlet) on his clothes or even his face, a long white hair clinging to his jacket or even a scratch on his back, as a result of a recent but very stormy joint passion with another femida. But these are the visible signs. However, psychology is important here. A person who went to such an act as treason, simply will not be able to behave as before. The man's mind will tell him that he betrayed that it threatens to rupture. And the husband will try not to fall for once again to the eye, and maybe completely shut up in himself. If the betrayal of the husband is confirmed, what to do and how to proceed correctly, only your intuition and heart will tell you. After all, the reasons why a man changes, maybe a thousand. And you should not think for his sake, but for yourself, what have you done to preserve and prosper this union? And what could, but did not? What your act or quarrel could lead to treason? Asking yourself such questions, you are sure to find a fairly impressive number of answers that can probably save your marriage.
What to do after you learned about the betrayal of her husband?
How to survive shame and disappointment? First, do not be afraid! At least do not be afraid to be honest with yourself. Do not hide, do not be cowardly and do not lie to yourself. First of all, answer yourself to the question: "Why did this happen?". And after that, start serious disassembly. Do not hesitate to give yourself up for a short period of depression. Mourn and cry, admit to yourself that you really hurt. You are depressed and offended, you want to lie on a sofa on the couch and it's absolutely pointless to switch TV channels, and in the head only one question, well, why do men change and so offend women? Think, and after that, get up and pull yourself together. Life after the betrayal of her husband does not stop, but on the contrary, it can cook you a lot of pleasant surprises. 
Our complexes and fears
While treason brought a temporary manrest, relaxation and a lot of pleasant moments, his wife receives a portion of the selective negative and occasions complex. Of course, this is a very nasty and unexpected event in the life of every woman. Many will find it difficult to think about what to do when the husband's betrayal is revealed. How to survive betrayal? To answer this question, remember the five basic "No" that it is best not to do under any circumstances:
Treason of a husband during pregnancy
Treason of a husband, when the family is expected to soonreplenishment, in general is a special category of adultery. It would seem that everything should be fine, but then why do men change? Why even in such a touching moment of life as pregnancy and the birth of a baby, they manage to spoil the life of themselves and their second half, shortening her years of life. In this case, the reasons can be both the lack of a habitual sexual life, and the desire of a man to show a woman that the expected baby is not the only child in the house, and that he is a husband, also requires attention and care. In this case, it remains only to be patient and to seek compromise and mutual understanding. They say that a woman becomes a mother at a time when she finds out that she is pregnant, and the man becomes a father only when he takes his child in his arms. Therefore it is not surprising that you can face misunderstanding and even some resentment on his part. Try to convey to him that no one can take his place in your life. Just now it will have a place for the child. And you have enough love for all. During pregnancy do not forget about your own sexuality, because you are a woman and you can be attractive, even being "in position". Take care of yourself and do not lose contact with your man - touch each other as often as possible, feel the presence of each other in life, as well as the rapid appearance in it of your continued with it. It often happens that a pregnant wife for a man becomes even more desirable and sexual. This is the psychology of perception and everything depends on the nature of the man. But in order to be attractive, you need to give yourself time and attention.
If the dream of betraying her husband
And now let us touch on a topic that is especially importantfor impressionable and suspicious women. What does the betrayal of a husband mean in a dream? After reading the interpretation of the betrayal of her husband in dream books, you can stumble upon thousands of different answers. But not everyone believes this. Therefore let's see what psychology will tell us, namely, one of the authoritative doctors of the souls of man is Freud. So, as Sigmund Freud explains to us, if you see yourself in a dream as a traitor, it means not realized sexual energy and strong temperament. In life, this does not mean that you want to change your partner. To dream, as they change to you, means that you just make up about your lack of sexuality or try to hide it in every possible way. As you can see, all problems are solved. But do all men change? Can their psychology and nature not allow one to be true to one? Of course, not all! Moreover, according to statistics, only 20% of married men go left. The rest are exemplary husbands and fathers. The main thing to remember is that for a man it's very important to feel your support in life and to know that you love him. So do not start a relationship and do not put everything on its own, then you will never experience the grief of betrayals. We advise you to read:
