If you are a single woman, you probablyare concerned about how to find your one and only? The men you have tried to build relationships with turn out to be not the ones you need. If all your relationships have led to nothing good - one drinks too much, another will not let a single skirt pass him by, the third is not at all brilliant - it's simple: you should take the initiative into your own hands and go in search of your long-awaited soulmate. But where to meet a man?

How to look and behave when meeting

Pay close attention to your choice of clothes, theyIt should not be too flashy, but not too simple either. It should also match the place where you are going to meet someone, i.e. you should not go to the library in an evening dress. When choosing it, be guided by the fact that most men prefer softer, pastel, restrained tones. The play of bright colors in clothes can cause an ambiguous reaction, but the first impression of you should remain positive. When choosing eau de toilette, opt for lighter, unobtrusive, perhaps mysterious, but at the same time soft aromas. Your scent should attract a man, not repel him. Men do not like sloppy people, so your hair and nails should be in perfect order. The hairstyle should look more natural, avoid experimenting with curling, the man may not be delighted. Nails should not be painted in bright colors, the best choice is a neat French manicure. Your behavior when meeting should be natural and relaxed. You shouldn't flirt with a man if it's not easy for you - it will look ridiculous. Try to smile as often as possible and joke whenever possible. Don't act too assertively. This type of acquaintance makes a bad impression on many people, and the man is unlikely to want to continue the conversation with you. You need to interest the man and do everything so that he thinks that it was he who met you, and not you with him. Show your creativity and come up with a more original way to meet - this will make a good impression on the man, and he will be interested in a new acquaintance. To begin with, you must decide exactly what kind of man you need. This is done in order to narrow down the supposed places to look for a partner.

Where to meet a man

• Fitness club

Every self-respecting man strives to becomestronger, takes care of his appearance. People who play sports, as a rule, do not smoke, do not drink, lead an active lifestyle, are full of energy. If you need exactly this kind of man, buy a membership to a fitness club as soon as possible. To interest an athletic guy, you do not necessarily have to become a master of sports. You can approach him with a request to show how to do some exercise correctly. In this case, the man will imagine himself a “guru” and will happily show you everything you asked. And so, word by word, develop the conversation, ask how long he has been training, praise his achievements - this way you will arouse interest in yourself, since it is nice to receive praise from a barely familiar person. If in the first month you have not met the man of your dreams, do not despair, at least during the time spent in the gym, you will improve your figure and improve your health, and then the guys themselves will start asking you for advice.

• Bookstores, libraries

If you want to see a well-read person next to you,a smart man who knows the answers to all questions, welcome to the world of books. Where else, if not here, to look for a person with brains? A reason for conversation can be common preferences in literature. You can simply take a book and ask if he has read it and whether it is worth buying. Start developing the conversation by asking about his preferences in literature, what his favorite book is. If you have at least one read work in common, start discussing it. You can compliment him on his intelligence and erudition. This will please the man, and he will be interested in continuing the conversation with you.

• Theaters, museums, exhibitions

If you are an art lover and would like to seenext to you an equally refined nature, it is worth looking for acquaintances in places not so remote. Start a conversation by asking, for example: "Have you seen earlier works of this author?" You can also simply start discussing the works available in the hall, if it is an exhibition. But I'm afraid to disappoint you that single men are not very common here, but there are such.

• Courses

A great opportunity to meet a man— attend English language courses. Nowadays, most developing people are drawn to learning new languages, and since English is the most popular language, the choice is obvious.

• Clubs of interest

If you have any interests, please usethem to meet a man. Interests can be absolutely anything, from stamp collecting to fine art. In addition, it is much easier to develop a conversation when people are united by a favorite activity.

• A restaurant

One of the most popular places for dating.It is not necessary to visit the most expensive restaurants to meet a decent man, unless, of course, you want a rich sponsor. You can start a conversation with a request to suggest some tasty dish.

• Cultural rest places

Amusement and recreation parks, recreation centers, venues where open concerts and public recreation events are held.

Where it is not necessary to get acquainted with men

• Night clubs

This is not the place to look for seriousrelationships. Men who visit these establishments are usually fans of "picking up", i.e. one-night stands. But if you need such a relationship, you are welcome.

• Social networks

Many people, having met on social networks,literally fall in love, but after the first meeting in real life they suffer great disappointment. The person you meet in virtual life may turn out to be a completely different person in real life. In virtual life, you do not hear his voice, do not smell, do not know how he will behave in this or that situation. Rarely do online acquaintances result in long-term, serious relationships.

• Motor shows

Most women who are looking fora wealthy man, meets in car dealerships. But if a man comes to a car dealership for a car, this does not mean that he will immediately pay for it in full. Perhaps he will take it on credit and, having started to build a relationship with him, you will both get bogged down in debt.

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