Weak erection. For any member of the stronger sex, the absence of an erection at the very moment when it is needed most is a real catastrophe, and, notice, a catastrophe of almost universal scale. The man begins to panic, despair, it seems to him that "the earth is leaving from under the feet." And at this moment it is the support of your beloved woman that plays a decisive role in the later sexual life of a man. It is from the woman will depend on whether a man considers a weak erection to be just an accidental phenomenon, or if the feeling of insecurity is firmly entrenched and the man his entire remaining life will consider you a potential loser. But in order for a woman to understand and support her man, she must find out which factors influence the weakening of the potency. The lack of erection is called "impotence" in medicine. However, a weak erection is not always a medical problem - that is, caused by some diseases. These cases account for no more than 20% of all cases of erectile dysfunction. However, in most cases, male impotence is of a psychological nature and after the elimination of psychological causes, erectile dysfunction disappears without a trace. And, as a rule, for the solution of psychological problems, the participation of a partner is not only desirable, but also necessary. But for a woman to really help, she needs to know what exactly the problem is caused in each particular case, and how she should behave in order to improve the situation.

Guilt

According to the observation of doctors - psychologists andsexopathologists, the most common cause of erectile dysfunction is the man's feelings of guilt. Particularly high probability of such cases in those situations where a man has two friends, or a wife and a mistress. On the one hand, this man himself actively actively strives for intimacy. But very often, at the most crucial moment, the erection of a man simply - just disappears. And this is due to the fact that a man experiences a feeling of guilt, and he himself does not always realize it - it can be subconscious. In this situation it is difficult to advise something definite. So, for example, if you are a "legitimate" second half of a man, you should try and make every effort to keep your husband. If, of course, you are ready to forgive treason and never to remind of it. Well, if you are the second, "illegal", half, you will either have to reconcile with the existing situation, or to part with this man.

Sex without Love

There is a very widespread opinion aboutthe fact that men are polygamous by nature, and sex for them is in no way connected with feelings and emotions. However, this is far from true - all men are capable of strong enough and profound experiences. The vast majority of men prefer sex to those women whom they love and respect. And, importantly, with those whom they love and respect them. Otherwise, a man can develop a persistent feeling that he is only a means for women to satisfy sexual desires. Therefore, the opinion that only a woman may seem as if a man is "using" her, is mistaken. Men are also actively protesting against such "exploitation." And most often the subconscious displays their protest in the form of a weakening or even a complete absence of an erection. Therefore, the main and most correct way to correct this situation is to tell your man as often as possible that you love him. For a man, these words mean nothing less than for women. Well, of course, your words should in no case be at variance with your actions. After all, a person feels falsity very accurately. And falsehood is much worse than indifference.

Drinking alcoholic beverages

Well, the leading position among the reasons for the violationerection takes the use of alcoholic beverages. As a rule, this problem is temporary and occurs only during intoxication. And, incidentally, alcohol is the most important excuse for justifying a man. Although remember that the systematic use of alcoholic beverages can lead to the development of persistent impotence - and this is a much bigger problem that requires quite serious interference. In this situation, the correct reaction of a woman is very important. It is not necessary to blame a man for having failed to intercourse, unless, of course, you want the problem to be firmly and permanently entrenched in his subconscious. Do not make this a tragedy, and it is much more sensible not to pay attention to failure at all. Just try to defuse the situation and put the man to sleep. Believe me, next morning. Having sobered up, your lover will certainly appreciate your tactfulness and patience. A weak erection during the act will go along with the remnants of alcoholic intoxication.

Housing problem

Of course, speaking of psychological problemsimpotence, we can not fail to mention such an aspect as the housing issue. Very few men are capable of a normal sexual intercourse, realizing that there are people behind the wall. Therefore, in this case, the erection can be greatly weakened. In such cases, a woman should show understanding, and not insist on sexual intercourse. In this case, a weak erection does not indicate any serious violation. It is much more sensible to postpone the closeness to a more favorable moment than to react painfully to the slightest creaking of the bed or an extra sigh of a partner, turning sex into a kind of test for strength. In all the cases described above, in no case is it inadmissible to focus on the problem that has arisen - neither at the time of its occurrence nor after any time. However, if all these methods have not helped you, there is a possibility that a weak short erection is a consequence of the presence of certain diseases of the genitourinary system, for example, such as prostatitis or prostate adenoma. Of course, in order to eliminate this problem, a man should, as soon as possible, without losing valuable time, seek help from a urologist. However, very often a man refuses to go to the doctor because of a feeling of embarrassment. And the main task of a woman is to persuade him to do it. We advise you to read:

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