In your heart there was a heartfelt affection forto some guy? It's such a wonderful emotion that you really want to congratulate you. After all, when our heart is able to feel and tremble, we perceive life very differently. It plays a variety of colors - bright and saturated. We feel its fullness and taste. In such moments, the girl seems to light some inner light, illuminating everything around her. From the mouth of the young lady does not go mysterious smile, and others and strive to make her a compliment. So, you really like the guy, what to do with this next? If you do not take into account the situation when one has to get rid of one's own feelings, then one should consider how to evoke reciprocal sympathy in the young man. Now we are talking about a normal life situation in which a girl's heart can be hammered more often. The appearance in the familiar environment of the young lady of a guy who answers the idea of what a dream man should look like, of course, causes her certain reactions. This is more than appropriate, given some points. Enjoy a wave of rushing gentle feelings you need to do, if there are such circumstances:
All of the above should be clarifiedearly. If the first three points fall away, then we can safely think about how to hint at the object of his sympathy for him. In most cases, this is not so difficult and scary. In this article we will try to open this burning topic as widely as possible.
What to do when a guy likes?
Partisan actionsgathering information. And absolutely anyone - everything can be useful. Do not be shy - shyness is not your assistant. Take this from this point of view: if we are interested in something, we devote a lot of time to this activity, we study everything that has to do with our hobby. It is logical, if in relation to the young man you like, you will act accordingly. A lot can be learned about a person, even just watching him. If you are not already familiar enough to conduct dialogues, study everything that your communication allows you. Style of clothes, gait, gestures - all these little things can give food for thought. We throw the fishing rods If the guy that you really like is your neighbor, colleague or goes to the same sports club as you, then it's just fine. Men approve of the fact that the young lady shows her helplessness and knows how to ask charmingly for support. You can turn to your neighbor if you need to close the water tap. Then thank the tasty and self-created work of the kitchen art. A colleague can ask for advice on various professional issues. In the sports hall, nothing to carry or move various inventory with a solid weight. Your object of interest is unlikely to deny you assistance if you contact him with the appropriate request. I myself can do everything with the Initiative - the prerogative of a man. This is a long-known stereotype. Let's not talk about its fidelity and relevance. After all, any one's own initiative can be made so imperceptible that the guy will never guess that it was not coming from him, but from you. Ways mass. After all, a woman is much wiser in such subtle matter. Even an exchange of a couple of phrases can create a miracle, and the man himself will begin to show a violent activity to more often be in your society. If you are confident in yourself and your self-esteem will not suffer even in the event that the result does not meet expectations, that is, a young person will refuse to communicate or make friends with you, act directly. You can just go up to him and say that he is very pleasant to you. To get acquainted first. Leave a phone number. Find in social networks. If you have been talking for a long time, but not too close, the distance can be shortened by making an offer to go to the cinema together for some interesting film. Forget about doubts and about the thought "oh, he will laugh at me". Tatiana Larina's act did not cause laughter - only respect for determination, courage, sincerity and straightforwardness. True, she chose another way to confess her feelings and wrote a letter, but did not report the secret of her heart in the conversation. This is also quite a worthy option to pour out a soul to a sweetheart guy. Especially now that such a rarity is a handwritten letter. Above all, avoid grammatical and other errors. Otherwise, you can not achieve the goal. Contact established - the visual image beckons Everyone remembers what men love with their eyes? Men like girls, nice looking. They are not always luxurious beauties, but most often they are pretty, attractive eyes. We do not doubt that you are good at yourself. But, maybe, it's time to change jeans and sneakers to dresses and skirts, and put light shoes on the legs? Guys love girls in their own opposite. "Yin" and "yang" are so different, but so perfectly complement each other! Feminity should be emphasized, gently played and beautifully allocated. Look at which girls his gaze will stay longer, what young ladies he compliments more often. Who from the heroines of movies or books evokes his admiration, as evidenced by his comments? Compliments Guys, even though they love their eyes, but only a sweet word and a cat is pleasant. What do we mean? Learn to say compliments. After all, this is a very correct and useful skill. What can be more natural than saying a pleasant word to a person, especially if he really deserves it? Use any moment, catch every chance to appreciate the dignity of a person who is nice to you. Some men very long guess that they are attractive to the young lady. Compliments will help push the man's thoughts in the right direction. Surely soon the young man will be visited by the thought: "I think she likes me!" After that you will understand his attitude towards you. Does he start courtship? Hooray, your sympathy is mutual! Does everything remain the same? Well, friendship is also a wonderful feeling. Smile will become all the light. There are signs that a guy can understand that he and his society are very impressed. The most elementary method to demonstrate this is a smile. You meet with the man, and do not rush to look away. Gently smile at him, demonstrating a willingness to communicate and joy at his sight. Can not cope with yourself and become blush? It's okay, it's so cute from the outside! Embarrassment is quite natural. Tell yourself that there is nothing criminal to smile at the subject of your dreams. You smile to the neighbor's baby, friend, colleagues? This thought in the next will help you be a little more confident. Secular conversations Sooner or later (but the earlier, the better) the time of communication between you will come. At work it is inevitable, and to find an excuse to start a closer contact would be better soon. When communicating, you should equally be able to use two important qualities of a pleasant interlocutor - it is very important to hear and listen to your partner. It is not necessary to be silent at all. When a man alone supports the thread of conversation, then he can explain your silence as if his society is not very interesting for you. Therefore, always ask questions about the topic of the conversation, insert relevant replicas. Here, too, there are many ways to give a signal to your interlocutor that we like him more than just a pleasant person. A sense of humor is a life buoy Very often in some situation you need to find something very funny to understand how it looks from the outside. This is one point that must be taken into account. The second, even more important: laughter brings together. Have you ever thought about the fact that if you both start laughing at the same jokes, then is there something in it? And if this is his or just your jokes, then you definitely are on the same wavelength. Now rapprochement is a matter of time. Just keep finding more occasions for mutual laughter. You yourself will not notice that your sympathy is mutual and met with approval from the laughable guy.
In love and in war - are all the means good?
Nobody knows the formula of love, otherwise it would be on earththere were much more loving people, and mutually, and not unrequited. But you can definitely say one thing: when you realize that your heart is frozen and seems to melt at the sight of a single guy, you should definitely take steps to meet him. After all, losing luck and that most important chance is easy. Fear of failure or failure is much easier than trying to act. Not every girl is capable of this. Therefore, the result in life is different for all. But in fact, in fact, what threatens your decisive action? The saddest thing is that you will be refused reciprocity. So it's even better: you will not be tormented by the unknown and build air locks. This turn of events will allow you to look around. Suddenly, in the immediate vicinity of you there is someone whom you have liked for so long, but how to give you this to understand he does not know? After all, you yourself have gone into their own experiences. Here as it is impossible by the way to the aid there will come a sense of humor about which we already spoke. There is no thin without good. You will definitely meet that man who will be able to appreciate your feelings and will answer them only sincerely and tenderly!