How to wean a child to achieve his cry, wean from the whims and scandals

Why is it necessary to wean the child from the vagaries and screams

The formation of the personality of the baby is influenced byadults, as well as the development of certain behavioral stereotypes. No matter how offensive it was to recognize parents and grandmothers, there is a fair share of their guilt in children's scandals and hysteria.How to disaccustom the child to achieve the shoutFoto: Getty Children's whims are not uncommon, and often they are quite reasonable. Children can have teeth, a stomach ache, they can be scared or lonely. Therefore, the natural reaction of the mother and other relatives is clear - to approach, regret, calm, divert with a bright toy or a ruddy apple. This is necessary for both the child and you. But screams, hysterics, tears and even stamping and wallowing on the floor often become a way to get what you want, and the concessions of adults lead to the fact that such scandals happen more often and last longer. The habit of manipulating adults does not only get on the mother’s nerves, but can have unpleasant consequences for the child.

Frequent screams, tears and tantrums are bad for the baby’s nervous system. And constant concessions to him only worsen the situation.

A small manipulator forms a stable reaction, similar to a reflex one. If he doesn’t get what he wants, as soon as an explosion of screams, tears, stamping with his feet, etc.

The vagaries of the child can take a demonstrativecharacter And often, children of two or three years old begin to throw up tantrums in public places: in shops, on transport, on the street, etc. With this they put the mother in an awkward position, and in order to stop the scandal, she makes concessions.

Capricious, accustomed to achieve their crychildren do not get along well with their peers, they have serious problems with adaptation to kindergarten, because educators react to their scandals differently than their parents.

It is necessary to change the behavior of a capricious child for its own sake. And the sooner you start to fight tantrums, the easier it will be to cope with them.

How to wean a child from crying and whims

The reasons for the vagaries may be different and not all of them.associated with stubbornness and the desire to achieve his. Therefore, if a baby is so capricious and often cries, it is better to first consult a doctor and a child psychologist. But as a rule, mothers themselves are well versed, because of what occur tantrums.Knowing how to wean a child from screaming and whims, youhelp him look for logical argumentsPhoto: Getty There are many ways to stop the scandal that has begun and wean the child to use this tool.

If you feel that the baby is ready to throw a tantrum with tears and felting on the floor, then switch his attention, suggest doing something interesting, watching pussy, bird, etc.

If screams and whims are in full swing, starttalk to a child about something neutral. The most difficult thing here is to make him listen to you, because because of an oracle, a capricious person does not usually react to anything. But catch the moment when he is silent, and start saying something that attracts the baby, switch attention, distract. He will shut up, listen and forget about the reason for the scandal.

Watch your emotions, do not succumb to anger and irritation, do not shout at the child. Be calm, but persistent.

If tantrums are repeated often, then you canpunish the little manipulator. The best option is isolation. Leave the capricious one and the tantrum will quickly cease. After all, a child cries only for you, and if there are no adults nearby, the scandal loses its meaning.

One of the most important principles that needfollow in the case of children's whims - calm perseverance. Do not allow the kid to prevail in this confrontation, but also try not to let him bring himself to a nervous breakdown.