When a guy is a womanizer, changing his girlfriends, likegloves - this is truly a punishment for the female sex. How many of such ladies' lovers are shed tears, how many nerves are exhausted and hearts are broken! Do not be mistaken ... Women's women simply can not maintain a long relationship with one representative of the beautiful half of humanity. Give them to others, and as many as possible. Well, how to be, if the one to whom we so recklessly fell head over heels, turned out to be a big fan of skirts? And rushes behind each of them headlong, acquainted, meets, throws, again gets to know each other. Is it possible to stop it, and if so, what is needed for this? Before looking for the answer to this question, let's talk about who are these ladies' people in fact and why the guys become women's men.
The reasons why men become ladies' men
Why a man is a womanizer? There are many reasons for this. He can change women, because:
Fear of close emotional relations and change of partners
According to the experts of human souls, the majorityMale-womanizer rushes from woman to woman because they are afraid of attachment to them. Psychologists call this state of a person intimophobia. What is the difference between intimofoby from other female lovers? The fact that the usual ladies' man is, in principle, able to fall in love and create a very decent family. In addition, a simple womanizer can be admitted in love and still have some time (and even a long time) to maintain relations with them. Intimofoby do their best to prevent such situations. I must say that the fear of close spiritual relations is in the majority of very strong men. The reasons for its occurrence are different. Someone survived the betrayal of a beloved woman, someone lost her forever for some reason, someone thinks that strong feelings are a sign of weakness, someone is not trying to become attached to any of the girls, having seen enough of how suffer from this are his acquaintances and buddies. But most often the motive for the emergence of this behavior are children's experiences. In life, intimophobes are often successful and can achieve much. But they do not know how to love, and something more powerful than a short-term passion, they almost never experience. Sometimes such inner emptiness contributes to the development of sexual aversion to a woman with whom there was intimacy. A man who does not accept love reflexively closes from her, not allowing even the slightest appearance in himself of any emotions. If they nevertheless look a little, he immediately throws off a partner without much regret and then forgets about her forever. In general, most intimophobes are well aware of their own condition and do not hide it when they meet the opposite sex. But we do not want to take it seriously! Well, think, my man is a womanizer! Previously, I was not attached to anyone because I simply did not meet a real woman. We'll melt the ice of his soul ... If the guy is a womanizer, it's almost impossible. And the result of this self-confidence is the break of relations and our own suffering soul. Intimofob - banal Casanova, who has on his account a lot of sexual wins. He scoots away from his passion, at least she should hint at living together. However, sometimes he succeeds in getting him to become a husband. However, family life with such a person promises to be not very sweet. From it you will not wait for the manifestation of participation and tender feelings, care and strong affection. Such a husband will live on his own in private, closed to all the world. Re-educate him is extremely difficult. What can I do if life confronts us with a man of this type? 
How to be with a man, if he does not know how to love
Intimofoby are usually charming, intelligent andare attractively attractive. Therefore, it is very easy to fall in love with them. And we willingly fall in love, hoping that once this person, if he is convinced of the sincerity and reliability of the feelings of a woman and her exclusivity, will change. In vain. Because these men repel emotions. And there is an exceptional woman there or the same as everyone else - they simply are not interested. The best way out in this case is to pull yourself together and part with an incompetent analogue of a robot. But it's not always possible! Then you need to be prepared for the fact that we will never hear from him cherished recognition. The main thing in such relations is not to encroach on the freedom of the chosen one. And do not talk to him about love at all, otherwise the chances are great that he will escape. In principle, the relationship with the intimophobe is not so bleak. If you do not take into account his insensitivity. Men with a similar state of mind are capable of friendship. They will not refuse support and will not stand aside in case of problems. In addition, if a person realizes that he is unable to respond to a woman's love with love, he will feel grateful to his half for understanding this. So the probability of creating a good family with an intimophobic exists. It must always be remembered - it is extremely difficult to remake it. Well, there is no mechanism of love in this man! He was either not foreseen by the designer, or was once broken without hope of restoration. If a man is experiencing discomfort from this, you can still change something. But this is very rare! Usually, intimophobes do not really oppress their own condition. It is perfectly acceptable, since it excludes mental anguish and suffering. Why change anything? Therefore, before you make plans for the future, when you meet with such a person, you should try to look at the situation soberly. And to understand whether we are ready to dedicate to someone who does not know how to love at all, the years of life. We advise you to read:
