The Pareto law acts in our lives always, beyonddepending on whether you know anything about it, or for the first time you hear it. The principle of this rule is as follows: 20% of actions will bring 80% of the expected result. And we will apply the next 80% of the effort to get the remaining 20% ​​of the success. Even an individual who is far from mathematics will understand what is at stake. Translated into a simple human language, this may sound like this - you will not have a second chance to make a first impression. In a romantic relationship, this works just as well. The first date - a kind of exam, a turning point in the relationship. The evaluation is the invitation to all other meetings. That's why the young ladies need to figure out how to behave on the first date with the guy so that the relationship begins to develop further. Our article contains tips based on real stories that have occurred in the lives of various ladies, as well as on the recommendations of specialists. After reading them, you will have an understanding of what format is best for a date, after which a tender tune of love in two hearts began. Perhaps you can not argue that adhering to all the above points, you are guaranteed to continue the relationship with the young man. But the alphabet consists of letters, and the words can be made up of different letters. Then words are constructed from words, stories, novels, stories are written. Here and here are, if you can say so, the letters, after learning which, you can become the author of a beautiful and exciting romance novel. What questions flutter in women's charming heads, after their owners receive an invitation to meet from a nice and interesting guy for them? Conditionally they can be divided as follows:

• How to look, to him exactly and irrevocably like? Accordingly, it also includes questions from the category of how to make-up, what to wear, how to style your hair, how to take perfume and so on.
• How to behave on the first date, if before that you either communicated too little, or did not communicate at all, or communicated, but only as friends?
• About what to conduct small talk? What to talk about, how to support the conversation, how to talk it better, so that you can better recognize him as a person?
• Where to go? Yes, this is also important. The venue is not crucial, but obviously the importance is important. Why? We will certainly tell you further - hurry to read.

My light, mirror, say

The question of how to look on the first date,side can not be bypassed for many reasons. First of all, because most men visually perceive information. Hence, you need to consider this their natural feature. Secondly, any young lady feels more confident, if in dialogue with a mirror she has found out that today is especially compelling and sweet. Having reached a certain age, each of the women has an understanding of what is most to her face, what moments in appearance it makes sense to disguise, and which ones should be emphasized, beat. Therefore, it is unlikely that you will want to go on a first date in a completely new way, which is not even used to yourself. The basis should be taken as you are used to looking daily, and a little embellish, dress yourself up. If you always look bright, wear heels and elegant toilets, then, do it safely to yourself spectacular make-up, intricate packing, dress yourself in a fashionable and thoughtful outfit. This is your style, you feel comfortable and confident in it. Therefore, your aura is harmonious and attractive. But do not think that the girl for whom all of the above will seem too complicated and complicated, for a date to go to anything. After all, it is not necessary to apply bright colors of nail polish to the nails of the hands and feet. A well-groomed appearance will give a transparent layer of coating. Hair gathered in a bundle, loose on the shoulders, braided in a braid, tightened in the tail - there are a lot of options for laying, which are absolutely not difficult to perform. But there are moments that are mandatory for execution. At this guy necessarily pay attention and most likely does not greet:

• The smell of a stale body is a real extreme. The girl should smell clean or perfumed. It is difficult to imagine a girl who will allow herself to appear at a meeting without taking a shower. But just in case, let's remind that hygiene is the basis of the basics. Perfume, leaving a thin train, draws. A wave of smell, knocking others around them, is a bust. Correctly selected aromas leave in the memory of the man exactly your image. Each time, catching a similar ambre, he will remember you and only you.
• Dirty hair and nails, no hair removal onlegs or in the area of ​​the armpits, if they are open to the eye. Comments, as they say, are superfluous. All this is taboo. It is better to cancel an appointment than to allow yourself to appear before his gaze in such an image. Cinderella charmed the prince in the image of a princess. Remember this when you are going to meet the prince of your life!
• Shokoterapiya - so you can say about girls,who decide to hit their knights, appearing on a date in unusual or provocative outfits, with a "tear-eye" make-up. Maybe, if you are both representatives of certain directions (for example, punks or rockers), then this is fine. If not, do not start your risky experiment.

Manners of a secular lioness

General advice from psychologists and wise peopleis extremely simple: to behave properly when meeting with a man means to be natural, positive and open minded. Do not play anyone other than yourself. If you see a man for the first time, then there is a danger that he will not be attracted to the woman who you are real, but the one whom you meticulously portrayed all the time. Even the most talented actresses can not play a role throughout their lives. The mask still have to be removed. What do you think, what reaction can follow from a man? If you already have a little idea about each other, then this behavior can immediately trigger a response. Counting on the fact that it will be positive, too presumptuous. Especially if the guy invited to date a lovely charming mademoiselle, and instead she sits opposite such Femme Fatale and absolutely does not know what to do now. Think of such a thing: "When I behave naturally, a man sees me as real. This means that he will choose me for who I am. " The first date is still not a way to start life from scratch, destroying stereotypes and fetters, allowing yourself now what was previously denied. A man can and rejoice that the girl has some unusual and zest. Or maybe get lost from this turn of events. Weigh your chances well. Especially if you plan to continue communicating with this gentleman and beyond. There is one more point to be voiced. Alcohol. In life, everything happens, but always remember how a man looks from the side, which is pretty tipsy. Perhaps you decided with the help of a glass of another to get rid of your shyness or taste a couple of still untried cocktails, or simply did not calculate your own strengths and exceeded the dose of drunk. In this case, there can be only one advice - you urgently need to go home. To continue dating does not make sense.

Not this

What most men react todisapproving during a date with a sweet lady? The list is not that huge, but it does exist. Mat, promiscuity, defiant behavior, loud laughter or voice. When a girl has to repeat several times that she stops expressing or laughing at the whole room, she may forget about getting another invitation to the meeting. Naturalness is not equal to the absence of good manners and culture of behavior. Femininity is the main criterion that attracts a strong sex to his charming representatives. It is quite reasonable and natural phenomenon. Do not wait for the moment when he makes a remark to you. The timely thought of "how do I look in his eyes when I behave this way" will help you to always control your emotions and behavior.

Let's talk heart to heart

You so want to learn everything about him and tellmuch about yourself on the long-awaited first date! Quite a normal desire. To do this, it is necessary to build a conversation so that the questions do not give an opportunity to get a "yes" or "no" answer. Such phrases are considered closed. After such a monosyllabic answer, a painful pause may hang, from which both companions feel uncomfortable. So learn to ask open-ended questions. On them the interlocutor will give detailed answers, and you can receive more necessary information from your gentleman. A properly constructed dialogue will bring you together very quickly. Ask during the conversation a question to yourself: "How do I conduct a conversation? Do I not talk now with myself? »Choose neutral topics for conversation, unobtrusively figuring out what interests your chevalier. Commonality and unanimity brings together, and differences allow us to open up something new for our horizons. No wonder they say that the opposites attract. Avoid only those who, even in the circle of close people, are not always appropriate and accepted to discuss. For example, the number of sexual partners, illness, interest in his savings account - all these are not the best reasons for the development of conversation. Do not interrupt a man when he tells you something briskly, but in the same way do not keep silent, like water in your mouth typing. Compliments are weapons, from which not one strong male heart has fallen. Speak them sincerely - this is the main secret of success in their application.

Where all roads lead

Someone says that all roads lead to Rome,someone claims to be a woman. And when it comes to the first date, the relevance of the issue of the venue is very high. The initiative can proceed on an equal footing. There are hundreds of places for visits. Perhaps, if you do not take into account the most extreme meetings, like a get-together at an abandoned cemetery. Walking in the park, riding a horse or boat, going to the movies, a theater, a concert or a movie. A cozy restaurant room or an open veranda of a summer cafe. All options have their absolute advantages. If you both love physical activity, then you can visit the ice rink in winter or go to the beach in the summer. There are examples when the first date began with the acquaintance of one of the participants in a romantic meeting with the other's family. Although this turn of events can get a double dose of excitement, but this clearly indicates a confidence in you and a clear interest.

Let's sum up the results

All should not think that the first date isa continuous test sequence and a minefield at the same time. You agreed to a charming man's offer of a meeting. Adjust yourself only to the good. Go and have fun with communication and a pleasant society. There is no particular difficulty in making a wonderful impression of yourself in the eyes of a man. Especially if you really want it. Believe in yourself, your attractiveness and charm, in your star - and you will succeed. The first meeting will be followed by a series of others, just as beautiful and pleasing. That's how beautiful stories begin about tender love - from the very first date and until life does not separate lovers. As practice shows, if a guy decided to invite a lady on a date - then it already likes him. All you need now is to stay for a long time the same pretty girl who decided to invite on a date to continue your acquaintance. Not the most difficult task, right? It's so feminine - just to be yourself and to fascinate others around you. We wish you good luck on any date, not just on the first one!

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