No matter how exciting and passionate youra love story, but stability is replaced by bright feelings and, no matter how hard the rumor, the habit. If earlier every word and touch of a beloved man caused in you a storm of pleasant emotions, inspired and pleased, then after a while you catch yourself thinking that some actions, habits and desires begin to irritate. And this does not mean that love has ended - just now it is undergoing a certain transformation, that is, is at a crossroads. It's like in a famous fairy tale: on the left you'll go - you'll lose your loved one, go right - you will find boredom, but directly - unknown. So or so the relationship stage looks like, when the novelty of feelings has passed and you begin to wonder about how to proceed. Indeed, go "left" to find thrills - the idea is bad. It is better to complete the relationship that has become a burden, and start all over again. But you can not fly like a butterfly from one flower to another all your life. Especially because some people manage to keep the passion in the relationship forever. And, as a rule, behind this is not happiness at all from meeting with the ideal man or ideal woman, but the ability to find romance wherever it does not occur to anyone: at home for a cup of morning coffee or evening tea; on a walk on a rainy day; by the sea in the velvet season, watching the play of moonlight on the water surface; reading each other's favorite poems and so on. Communication and life with a loved one have ceased to be interesting, intriguing and exciting? Do you spend more and more time in front of the TV, less walking in the evening evenings, and on weekends, everyone is engaged in their own affairs? Or are you tired of always visiting the same places - clubs, cafes and so on? Then in this article you will find the necessary advice on what an evening in the company of a beloved man can become if you arrange it in the style of a "romanticist".
Walk in the night city or a date in the bosom of nature?
As a rule, usually this word causesthe only intrusive association: dinner by candlelight at home, you are in a negligee, a bed spread and a night of love. In principle, a rather hackneyed scenario, but who makes follow it, especially if all this has already been done and more than once? Your joint romantic, arranged at home, has already ceased to amaze with novelty, has outlived itself as a source of bright and unforgettable impressions? This means that it's time to approach his organization on the other side. First, try to diversify the emotional component, including in the mandatory program a kind of prelude. In each city there were some bus or tram routes, along which the transport goes late on deserted streets. Ride together, tell each other about what kind of impressions and emotions you have caused by the flashing scenery outside the window. You can also hummer quietly favorite songs or drink hot coffee and just keep quiet, embracing. Well, do not forget that in public transport it is very pleasant to exchange kisses, as it certainly happened to you both at the dawn of relations! And do not let that stop you thinking that this is considered a mauveton. You in fact will begin to kiss not in rush hour, confusing sights of schoolboys and pensioners, and in the late evening when city transport, as a rule, is empty. So what do you care about the reaction of rare passengers, the more so that they, looking at the couple in love, will probably remember their own youth and related recklessness. The option with an evening walk in public transport is very suitable in rainy weather. And you can finish this romantic in a hotel room, taken in advance, or simply returning home and warmed up in a hot bath. And believe that no matter what followed, the special atmosphere that arose on the walk will give you both tenderness, sensuality and awe - all those feelings and emotions that did not seem to have disappeared, but somehow "dusted out" and lost their sharpness. Of course, you can not go far, and spend time in a familiar courtyard, sitting on an old bench - a silent witness of your first passionate embrace. Allow yourself to indulge in memories of quivering dates, an awkward kiss and so on. If you have already told all the stories while riding in the evening tram, do not worry, because you can not plan anything and make a date-impromptu: just sit and count the stars, eat ice cream or indulge in dreams. The sky, the stars, the night, the eyes of the beloved - what is not romantic? Depending on the area in which you live, it would be nice to go on some excursion and get new impressions, dividing them with your loved one, because it's so close! In many cities spend special night walks for lovers in the style of "romantic". Although you can plan yourself routes to places where you have never been. In parallel with your travels, do not forget to capture all the beauty of the city and, of course, yourself against the backdrop of the streets in the mysterious twilight. Choose the best pictures and put them in the most prominent places - as proof of nightly adventures. You can also make a collage of photos. Summer is a wonderful time for a picnic, and not only during the day, but also at night. So why spend another Saturday evening in a stuffy apartment, quarreling over a TV set or deciding whose turn it is to cook dinner tonight? To arrange an unusual romantic date out of the house and make it unforgettable, you need to choose a picturesque place in the park or on the shore of the reservoir, take a blanket, plaid, a thermos with a hot drink or a bottle of good wine, a few sandwiches and a guitar if your young man can play on it. But do not be upset because you can not listen to the sound of a favorite musical instrument of all troubadours. Thanks to modern technologies people can enjoy romantic melodies almost everywhere. You need only one thing - to set up a mobile phone for this or that radio wave and to separate the headphones. To give the atmosphere a touch of mystery and intimacy, take the candles. Their quivering flame, reflected in the watery surface, will be an excellent addition to the evening in the style of "romantic".
If you want to stay at home ...
And what can you do in the winter or autumnRainy day, when you want to cheer up with new emotions, return the old breath of passion? What kind of joint pastime will bring lovers together and sharpen their feelings? In fact, you can find a lot of romantic moments and in a hike in the cinema, and in a game of snowballs in the nearest park, and went to the rink. And best of all, especially in bad weather, stay at home and spend the evening of the day off alone with each other. Usually we, women, always expect from their men initiative. And what if we take it into our own hands and draw the beloved to the organization of what is usually meant by the word "romanticist"? Tell him about what tone you would like to ask the next evening, which is to be spent together. Listen to counter offers and try to join forces. And you can learn some ideas from this article. Option one: as in American cinema. Do you remember the sensational film "Nine and a half weeks"? If not, then be sure to look at this peculiar guide to seduction and arm yourself with some very erotic techniques. First, it is necessary to create a romantic intimate atmosphere: to light candles, to make a bed with silk underwear, to pick up a seductive attire. As a mandatory attribute, prepare a black bandage over your eyes. Instead of candlelight dinner, it is better to make a small buffet on the bedside table, the menu should include all kinds of fruits, meat and cheese sliced, light wine, ice cream and liquid chocolate. Try to arrange a kind of competition and blindfolded one by one to guess the names of the food that you will feed each other. Do not forget about the entertainment program in the form of a striptease to the sounds of the famous melody from the film. By the way, ask your loved one to take an active part in the action, and not just be an outsider, lazily lounging in an armchair. If a striptease is not your hobby, then simply dance together for romantic music, talk to each other different pleasant and exciting imaginative words, exchange caresses and kisses. And if you treat people with excitement, then play cards for stripping. Such an unusual tournament will perfectly stimulate the imagination and wake up the desire. The most important thing is to forget about everything in the world, except for a loved one nearby. The rest will tell you the heart. Option two: swimming together. This is a great way to arrange a romantic evening for those who are a happy owner of a large bathroom, because it is her role as an alcove lovers. Fragrant foam, the flame of candles spread everywhere, flowers, ice champagne in tall glasses, quiet music - what could be better? Since this is not about how to diversify the sexual life of a couple (although this is also important), but how to breathe romance into a relationship or not let it disappear, do not rush to turn to love joys. Talk to each other, enjoy the proximity of bodies and thoughts, dream about the future, remember the wonderful beginning of your relationship. Believe me, if you manage to make a corner of privacy out of a regular bath, a kind of island of love, you will get together and laugh, and get a little rough, and become even closer and more familiar. Option three: romance in the kitchen. It will be about turning the routine cooking into an exciting adventure for two. First, choose a dish that was not in your menu before, for example: real Italian pizza, sushi, ravioli with unusual filling, exotic salad and so on. Secondly, be sure to try the ready-made ingredients for your beloved, but not with a spoon or fork, but with your lips. By the way, why do not he try the sauce by licking it from your chest? It is likely that you will not be able to finish the preparation of the meal on time, and the kitchen table, which has been smeared with flour, will witness a sudden flare-up of passion. But the memories of such a joint preparation of dinner at home for a long time will cause a significant smile on your lips, and in the eyes of your beloved man, you will surely read the desire to repeat it. Option four: for romance - on the roof! Breakfast in the fresh air or dinner in the evening twilight in the company of a loved one - it always tunes in a special way and gives a sea of positive. You can use the services of special firms that will be able to do everything on the highest level. You will be offered to arrange a romantic on the roof of a skyscraper in the center of the city, create the right entourage, organize musical accompaniment and provide an excellent choice of dishes. Although it should be noted that all this will require certain financial costs. So it can start on the roof of your own home? And what if it is quite suitable for a surprise date? There is no need to drag a table behind - you can arrange dinner or breakfast in an oriental style with pillows and a coverlet. Just imagine: the morning in the megalopolis, unusually quiet on Saturday, and you with a cup of fragrant coffee, enjoying the coolness on the eve of a hot day. Or another picture: the evening, city lights, the fragrance of flowers presented by a beloved man, a delicious dinner under the stars and the whole night ahead ... Of course, it is not at all necessary to use ready-made scenarios. Tastes of people are so different, and the fantasy of lovers has no boundaries. Perhaps your man will be inspired by an evening on the shore of a lost lake in the forest, spending the night in a tent and bathing naked in the cool water. Someone will find a very romantic evening at home, without any additional entourage, just in the company of a beloved woman, a bottle of champagne and an old movie on TV. And each of these options is good in its own way, it remains only to understand what you want both of you. Undoubtedly, most of our desires are connected with financial opportunities. But you will be able to give each other a little romance in any case. Let your action not be amazed by its scope, but it will warm you with warmth and brighten up with love. Do not be afraid to surprise and rejoice. Remember that what a romantic would not draw you imagination, to embody it in life will help the mutual desire to preserve the freshness of feelings and make a loved one happy. Experiment, because the novelty - a powerful ally in the construction of gentle and quivering relationships!