Friendship, and especially women - a complex phenomenonand ambiguous. Indeed, the beautiful half of the world's population is divided into two camps. In one of them there is a firm conviction that a strong trusting relationship between two women who are not related is a myth. No, supporters of such a position do not at all deny the opportunity to be friends, to communicate in a neighborly way, to cooperate and so on. But nobody is allowed to let anyone into the personal sphere. And is there really no reason for this behavior? Without end, we hear "terrible" stories: then one girlfriend took her husband away from another, then with envy gossiped, she did something else unworthy. Believe after this, people, opening their souls before them and letting them into their hearts! But another part of women claims that life without a good friend is empty and devoid of many colors. After all, neither mother nor sister, nor even a boyfriend or husband can tell what can be shared with a close in spirit best friend. Who, apart from her, will be able not only to listen attentively, but also give effective advice? Criticize, honestly express your position, help out, if necessary, and keep secret your secrets? But all this is possible only if there is sincerity and honesty to each other, the ability to listen to the thoughts of a person whose opinion may not coincide with yours, and mutual respect. In addition, true friendship is a deep degree of trust, almost the same as the one that defines love. Betrayal, deceit, resentment and misunderstanding of such relations are not terrible, especially if they are checked for years. Do you need strong friendships in gifts? Certainly, after all, presented on the occasion of his birthday, on March 8th or another holiday, a bottle of perfume, a set of stylish costume jewelry or quality cosmetics that a close friend dreamed of for a long time, will best tell her about your sincere and kind attitude. Of course, long-standing friendships are not measured by the amount spent on congratulating someone on a date in the life of one of the two women or girls. But any feelings, whether friendly, romantic or romantic, needs to be recharged in the form of something tangible. In the end, a gift is first of all a token of attention. And how much it turns out depends a lot. 
Where does the dream come true?
The choice of how and what you plan to congratulatehis girlfriend with an important date in her life, depends on the mood with which it is done. Undoubtedly, if it is a burden for you to go in search of a worthy gift, you can and even need to postpone this mission for later. After all, idle reeling of the shops without a definite purpose in the search of what is unknown is likely to end in disappointment and leave behind a feeling of deep dissatisfaction. And the only thought that such a voyage will have to be repeated will cast you down. Therefore, do not go in search of gifts friend to gloomy and dissatisfied, in advance programming yourself to failure. And in order to tune in to the positive and enjoy the choice, you need the idea of a future congratulation. Do you think it is possible to give a close friend a dream? Well, not in the global sense of the word, because a car, a house in the Bahamas, a mink coat or a millionaire groom to master is unrealistic, and there is no need. No, we are talking about modest and very feminine desires, the realization of which is often more important than global ideas. If you are sufficiently attentive to what your girlfriend is saying, then for certain, without any special effort, recall, for example, a signature lipstick, a magic face cream or a bracelet that fits perfectly with a newly acquired dress. These and other pleasant trifles we, the girls and women, really want to buy, but for some reason it does not work for us in any way. That time does not suffice, in a purse not densely, the mood brings. So why do not you realize one of these modest desires of your girlfriend on the occasion of her holiday? And perhaps, the friend sighed more than once sigh about the fact that she does not have the time to go to the solarium catastrophically, although she just dreams of getting a little sunbathing before the summer vacation? Give her a certificate to visit a good studio. Believe me, having a paid subscription already on hand, she will definitely find in her schedule an hour for tanning under an artificial sun, and you will be very grateful for that. If your girlfriend periodically complains of fatigue, you can make her a very healthy gift in the form of a trip to the spa, where the hands of an experienced masseur will help to relax and forget about everything. Extreme girls will enjoy the opportunity to feel the weightlessness in the wind tunnel, fly a helicopter, ride a quad bike or even play paintball. Who, if not you, know about the best friend's hobbies, so the ideas for her congratulations will come to your mind as soon as you start to think seriously about it. Invite to the holiday of your girlfriend's favorite photographer and arrange for her a small photo shoot. All the fair sex in the shower is a bit of an actress, so let your friend enjoy the wonderful opportunity to try on the role of a female vamp, an innocent beauty, a Japanese geisha or a medieval aristocrat. For such transformations, you will need the costumes and the help of a make-up artist, but in our time, nothing is impossible. The resulting pictures will be an excellent reminder of the improvised actor's testimonies of your girlfriend who gave her an interesting and new experience. A romantic person will certainly enjoy riding on horses, because at the thought of this imagination, the imaginative help draws a thin female silhouette on the back of a graceful animal against the background of a sandy beach. Cooking will appreciate the certificate for the courses of mastering the subtleties of Greek, Italian or Japanese cuisine. Sweet-toothed girl will be delighted with the opportunity to make exclusive chocolate sweets and eat them with you for evening tea. In general, as you can see, there are many options for non-trivial gifts to a girlfriend, but one of the most interesting and worthy titles, although small, but still dreams, you better know. 
Congratulations in the style of "skillful pens"
In this section we will talk about homemade gifts. Yes, yes, it's just recently that they have become especially popular and more relevant than ever. This is due to the fact that the abundance of clothes and interior items "one face" somehow ceased to satisfy modern people. Today, it's fashionable to be a little different from everyone, to emphasize in every way the originality of one's own image and habitation. Therefore, the lost hands of the hand-made technique once again gained recognition, especially among young women. After all, through the skill to create something with their own hands, one can express oneself and inform the world about one's own talent. So, if you remembered the schoolchildren that have been abandoned since the school years, and with the ecstasy you mourn the evenings, embroidering with a cross, then there's nothing to waste the skill, because it can bring real benefits by decorating the interior of your girlfriend with a unique panel. Of course, do not embroider a picture with a lilac for a room in a minimalist or Japanese style. Trust your own taste and choose the right story or theme. Incidentally, the author's embroidery is now expensive, so your panel will certainly be advantageous to stand out against the background of other gifts to a friend. Do not know how to embroider, but perfectly crochet or knitting needles? Then for you, nothing is easier than to make your own hands a warm set of scarf, hats and fashionable mitts. Look through the glossy magazines to determine what are the ideas of the main seasonal trends and connect really stylish bright things in which you can show off to everyone for envy. With the help of a hook, the master can easily produce a magnificent festive tablecloth, which no one will have. If your friend is going on vacation in hot countries, tie for her out of thin cotton threads a chic beach mesh tunic. In general, fantasize and remember that such gifts to her friend no one will give. Can you sew? You can make a set of author's table napkins, a patchwork plaid in the now popular "grandmother's" style and even beautiful curtains for the kitchen. Undoubtedly, own-made clothes are also an excellent solution for the occasion of a friend's holiday, but it's necessary to take measurements, that is, you have to declassify the gift. True, for a fashionable skirt "on the floor" they will be negligible, especially if you and your friend have the same size. Those girls who work with the skin, creating original fancy things from it, can be advised as an idea for the author's congratulations to do something like that. But it is important to consider the tastes of the culprit of the celebration, because if she prefers large capacious bags, then a tiny purse with a long strap is unlikely to find its application and will not be appreciated. Such creations of your hands as decorative candles, aromatic natural soap, objects made in the technique of "decoupage" or felting out of wool, author's interior toys and much, much more, are also suitable as gifts for a friend on the occasion of any holiday. The special charm of homemade things is that they store in themselves a part of your soul and are charged with positive energy, therefore they have a completely different type of value, different from the monetary one.
Secrets of a successful congratulation with affordable things
Of course, there is nothing easier than choosing a giftamong a huge assortment of ready-made things. And who said that for the sake of congratulating a friend on the holiday you need to spend a long time with a needle thread, a crochet or an urgent search for a master class on decoupage? Nonsense, because if close friends have developed a warm and close relationship long ago, is it really so important that you give it? Of course not. So do not be discouraged if you do not know how to do something with your own hands or you do not know what gift certificate for a service or entertainment your girlfriend will like. Ideas for a good gift are waiting for you on the shelves of souvenir shops, in boutiques or other specialized outlets. But to choose a worthy thing, based purely on personal preferences, you just will not succeed, unless you are an exact copy of your girlfriend. Therefore, focus primarily on its interests and tastes. This is important, even if a friend adores bright pink color, and you are sure that he does not go to her at all. Therefore, choosing, for example, a neck scarf or scarf, stop on the color scheme so beloved by your girlfriend. Although you can make a fashionable and less controversial in the shades of gift, for example, some bright belt or an elegant purse, because beautiful haberdashery will always come in handy. In general, the most successful gift is one that corresponds to a person's hobbies. Therefore, before choosing, try to determine what range of interests currently occupied by your friend. She is passionate about the work of a fashionable writer? Get the last, yet unread novel of this author. If you are not aware of the friend's literary preferences, the idea of an e-book will perfectly help you - let him read what he wants. A friend likes to visit the theater and does not miss a single premiere? There is nothing easier than to present her tickets for the next production. Invitations to a concert of your favorite band or performer will also bring joy as a congratulation on the occasion of the holiday. And how do you usually meet with your girlfriend? Do you visit a sushi bar or a pizzeria, because you love Japanese and Italian cuisine? Then why not choose as a gift a set for cooking the most popular dishes and in the near future not try to master them together? If your girlfriend likes to visit the pool or sauna, then a beautiful bathrobe, a compact hairdryer, a capacious make-up bag, branded rubber slippers will surely suit her. Now many women are able to drive and have their own car. Your close friend belongs to their number? Then she will definitely be delighted with the annual certificate for car wash service! After all, there is no time to take care of your own iron horse, and its dusty appearance can greatly spoil the mood in the morning. Yes, and not often see a woman with a bucket and a rag, shiny to wash your car. And what is your girlfriend's way of life? If her work is connected with frequent business trips, then the idea of handing a stylish travel suitcase or laptop bag is very successful. Housekeeper and super-owner will be pleased with a set of brand-name kitchen accessories, a new cookbook, a multivarquet or a freezer. Lady, leading an active lifestyle and adoring tourist trips, you can give a handy small thermos and an album describing the most beautiful corners of the globe. A girl with a head immersed in building a career, will appreciate a stylish portfolio for documents. 
Gifts for personal and forbidden
Cosmetics for problem skin, remedies againstcellulite, certificates for cosmetic services in the form of face cleansing, hair treatment - all this relates to gifts that are controversial and very ambiguous. Such kind of congratulations will be appropriate only if there is a really close trusting relationship between you and your girlfriend. After all, otherwise there is a risk once and for all to lose a friend, offending her with an ambiguous gift with questionable subtext. Therefore, think a hundred times before handing a fatty subscription to the gym, even if she constantly discusses with you the problem of excess weight. Many women are crazy about beautiful underwear, silk pajamas and glamorous dressing gowns. But you should not give such gifts to your girlfriend, without first finding out her preferences. After all, the Puritan girl will not appreciate the corset and the belt with stockings, no matter how sexy these objects seem to you. Most likely, she will remove them from her eyes, stuck deeper into the linen closet, and prefer to forget about such a gift forever. Imagine, in our time there are still girls with very conservative views, so you can give such things only if you know exactly about the tastes and character of your best friend. But if your close friend is experiencing romantic feelings in relation to some young man, living with him under one roof and sharing with you plans for a happy marriage, then a set of fashionable bed linen made from silk will come in handy. You can make another gift, the most desired for most of the fair sex - a special table for breakfast in bed. And if to it you add any set of the corresponding porcelain dishes, then hit the girlfriend with your attentive attitude to the very heart. To very ambiguous gifts include pets, especially puppies and kittens, which require special care and free time. Therefore, each person should take the decision to purchase a pet himself. But if, shortly before the holiday, a friend clearly expressed her desire to receive as a congratulation a thoroughbred British kitten, then instead of buying a small meowing baby, take her to a pre-selected nursery. Let her friend take the animal she likes best, and you will pay for this acquisition. And what gift can I choose for a friend who has everything? Bring her bright emotions and impressions. A festive firework, arranged in honor of her birthday, an invitation to a stripper for a bridal shower on the occasion of the upcoming wedding, a huge cake with candles, a balloon flight - this and much more can decorate any event, making it unforgettable for every girl. A gift-impression can also be a walk to the places where your common childhood years passed. Remember what school you studied, where you went to dance, where the first kiss happened, and so on. If at present you are both away from home, then organize a trip to your native town, but do not plan to stay with relatives, but rather remove the hotel room. Wander through familiar places, sit on the same bench where you used to smoke secretly from your parents, chatting about everything in the world and building grandiose plans for the future. Nostalgic memories, shrouded in light sadness, are sometimes shedding rain upon the hardened hearts because of the constant battle for a place under the sun, making us softer and kinder. Especially important are such excursions in the past to people who have achieved significant career heights in life - they help to understand the fragility and relativity of being, making us appreciate every moment that has been released to us from above. As the final chord, launch a pair of burning lanterns in the sky, symbolizing your sincere and eternal friendship. But even if none of the above options has found a response in your heart and you still can not decide which gift is the best, original and useful, then bear in mind that it is quite possible for you to provide a good mood to your friend . For this it is only necessary to order a luxurious bouquet of her favorite flowers and send the courier's apartment to the door in the morning. Do not forget to accompany the greeting card with warm and sincere wishes. Believe me, your girlfriend will melt away from feelings of gratitude for the excellent charge of positive already at the beginning of the holiday. And if he has a worker, then the music card that came to the e-mail address will make the hands of the clock accelerate, approaching the evening filled with surprises and pleasant moments. Fantasize, show creativity and run away from stereotypes, and then you will be able to congratulate a loved one in an unusual and bright way. We advise you to read:
