Women's loneliness ... It sounds sad, is not it? The woman is alone. Oh, how sad! But, if you think about it, it's not so kind and sad, as it seems at first glance. Always in this world there were those who knowingly did not want to create a family. Many representatives of the fair sex went to the monastery, became sisters of mercy, worked all their lives in orphanages or completely devoted themselves to some business - that's what led to the loneliness of the girl. And the representatives of the stronger sex did not get married until old age. So why in our days unmarried women evoke in the neighborhood a strange, sometimes mixed with scornful pity, interest? For some reason, more attention is paid to female loneliness than to masculine. Well, you think, a single man! This is normal. With modern household appliances and store shelves filled with semi-finished goods, it is quite possible to manage without a wife. But when an attractive woman does not have a husband - it's suspicious. It turns out that something is wrong with her. How justified is this attitude toward the loneliness of women? 
A Lonely Woman and Society
It must be said that male and female loneliness inthe past centuries were not perceived as they are today. Without a wife, a man over the age of thirty was much more perplexed than a lady of the same age without a husband. Particularly weak sex could sincerely sympathize - poor thing, they say, no one was married! Or treat it with understanding and approval. But bachelors under forty were considered nonsense. Say, somehow it's not human. After all, this is not normal, if a man has not yet acquired a family. Well, when he is a widower, everything is clear - a man lost his beloved, mourns and so on. And when he never married at all ... As we have already said, these days the attitude towards these kinds of situations has become different. Unmarried men are no longer considered, as not quite normal phenomenon. As for single women, they either do not approve or feel sorry for them, considering them unsuccessful and unhappy. But if you understand, many of those who have a husband are much more unhappy than free ladies! They, fearing condemnation from the outside, are forced to endure humiliation, bullying, betrayals of their faithful people because they have hammered into their heads: female loneliness is bad. And often they are also proud of having a permanent peasant in the house. Now, let everything in the family develops, but "THEN I HAVE A HUSBAND. And his neighbor does not! Means, I'm full-fledged, and she's not very good. " However, despite this, the number of free divorced ladies and the number of girls who do not want to get married at all, is growing. And not because there are fewer men than women. A candidate for a husband's place can always be found. There would be a desire. And most of the free individuals of the weaker sex do not have such a desire. Such is the story. What happens, my dear women? Do we become more free from public opinion? Perhaps, yes. After all, if you think so, a woman who is not burdened with a family has more opportunities to do what she likes. And he can devote more time to caring for his own appearance and self-development. As a result, free representatives of the fair sex often look better than married ladies, and intellect outnumber their fellow tribesmen. So why spoil your life by getting a husband demanding increased attention? Do we need this? And then what's wrong with women's solitude? 
Disadvantages of female loneliness
Yes, it seems that in our time many women do notneed to look for a life partner. They are successful, provided, self-sufficient. But ... But ... But ... What is a lady in reality, who lives without a deeply loving man? Even if she has children and lovers, she remains in love. Periodic sex with someone who just wants this sex? Well, that would be good. But only "as if". After all, the true love of a man is exactly what makes us truly beautiful. And it is not ... There are only sexual contacts, useful for the body. Perhaps someone will find this to be nonsense, but in general, a single lady, even if she is rich, will not be able to realize herself to the end. She needs a caring, understanding, living her problems, a person. Let the need for such a man in his life categorically rejects, but this is so. Perhaps, someone is able to satisfy the need for it with the help of a hobby or doing something. But are there many of these among us? Peace and a sense of security are given only by those who become the foundation, the soil for the growth of interest in life. And such interest appears when you feel desired, necessary, understood, unique. Well, let's imagine for a moment that someone worries about us, not because we have to do something for him. And because we are we. Everyone is vulnerable. Today, this is a successful, self-confident beauty, who has a lot of admirers. It is covered with flowers, rolled on luxury yachts, presents chic gifts. And tomorrow she suddenly fell seriously ill, was fat, older, she became impoverished. As a result, the admiring glances of men go out, become indifferent, alienated and even contemptuous. And no one is around. Is it possible to feel protected in such a case? The flowers have long withered, the yachts have disappeared on the horizon, the jewels are dead in the casket, the money is dusting in the bank. And health, and with it the vital forces, melts, melts, melts ... And the reverse situation. There is a loved one who has become a loved one, an extremely close, loving man. Next to him calmly. Even if something happens, even if tomorrow you turn into a frail wreck (and this can happen at any age), he will not leave you. He will try his best to relieve his beloved life, even when it becomes very difficult. After all, the same state of things is much stronger than the eternal, albeit lingering in luxury, loneliness! So why are we distracted by anything - career, business, hobby, anything, but not in search of just such a man? Quite frankly, how could we not say that we feel great, being alone, in reality it is not. In fact, women, with all their souls wanting complete freedom, are few. The main reasons for this freedom are quite different. 
Causes of female loneliness
So what are the causes of loneliness still hidden and what to do with them? Usually this:
Of course, this is not all the reasons for women'sloneliness. Someone did not create a family in his youth because of the despotism of his parents, someone devoted himself to education and career, believing that the family is afterwards. And someone and in general decided that it does not deserve the attention of men and personal happiness. But there are many examples of successful late marriages! And there are many cases when quite unattractive externally a woman successfully marries a loved one. You just need to open yourself for love, and happiness will come. Because any woman is his vessel and source. Happiness lives within us. You can not kill him. It's just a crime against nature. We advise you to read:
