In the first month after the birth of
Everything that happens to the baby in the first month,occurs for the first time. He sees light for the first time, touches his mother's breast for the first time, hears for the first time the surrounding sounds. All this causes the child a sense of some danger. And only the arrival of the mother, her touch gives him a feeling of complete peace and protection. In the early days the baby adapts to life. And right now it is necessary to lay the child's understanding that he is surrounded by love and care. The baby immediately calms down with the arrival of the mother, as soon as it comes into contact with her breast. In these moments, such feelings as mutual understanding and love are fixed between mother and child. Your little girl already trusts you. And there comes a time when you need to find a common language with each other. The kid can not tell you that he feels that he is worried. For all the external influences of the surrounding world, he is still able to react only by crying or smiling. you must help the child and teach him to control the degree of activity, wakefulness and sleep. Very soon he will learn this. Do not stop communicating with the baby during the waking period. His inquisitive mind notices everything around. The body reacts to external sounds, the eyes try to catch all movements. But if the child began to wrinkle irritatively with his mouth and pinch his legs, you should understand that he is tired and it's time to rest. Help the child to go to rest. Shake it on your hands, sing a song. After all, the smooth sounds act on the baby soothingly. All children are different. Someone likes to fall asleep in the arms of my mother, wrapped in a warm blanket, and someone wants to feel freedom from the first days, "unwrapped" and sleeps in the crib. Only you yourself can determine what will be most comfortable for your baby. Child development up to the year: the first smile When the baby is sleeping peacefully, the first smile appears on his face. Subsequently, the baby begins to smile in the process of feeding, with familiar sounds, for example, when he hears the voices of his parents. By the end of the first month your baby will start smiling more consciously. He already sees everything, he feels everything and hears everything. Such different activities All newborns are very different from each other. From the moment of birth, children have absolutely different motor activity and muscle tone. Some crumbs are inactive and sluggish, while others can be very active. This also applies to sensory perception. Some babies jerk at the slightest rustle or touch. And many quickly find a way to calm down, sticking a finger in his mouth and sucking it suckily. Engage with your child every day from birth:
- Change his postures, constantly turn from side to side.
- Talk with the baby and smile to him more often.
- Pamper the child, try to fulfill all his desires. So he will understand that he is very dear to you.
The second month of life has gone
Your baby is already endowed with individualfeatures and traits. He is already a person. Now you need to solve the riddle of what kind of person you have been born with, and find an individual approach to it. As a rule, the child gazes intently at all the objects that surround him, and the wandering look disappears. The kid clearly fixes all movements and catches sounds. Therefore, if the sounds annoy him, and the light shines very brightly, he will immediately let you understand it with his cry. Crying is the only way to tell mom about any problems. A child cries if he is hungry, when he is not comfortable and he is tired, when something hurts, and even when he just wants to communicate. How to calm the baby, you will understand for yourself, because you have been communicating with him for the second month. Sometimes, even just the native smell of my mother's body, and affectionate touch introduces infants into a state of rest. In the second month of life, you can try giving a baby a pacifier. Sometimes, children calm down when they suck a nipple, although for some, the pacifier is not a panacea, and they do not take it as a "substitute." Begin to thrive. In the second month of the growth of the baby, you will notice that he began to move very violently with legs and handles, turning his head from side to side. Changes occur in the nature of movements. This is not chaotic "shaking", but purposeful and conscious actions. How to deal with the baby:
- Use toys. Well-rounded carousels revolving around the crib are good, rattles.
- Develop eye coordination. Move and remove the toy, drive from side to side. Your little one will be happy to follow the subject.
- Talk with the child, and he will please you with the first sounds of approval. The baby will start to "gurgle" and respond with a smile.
- Let the baby listen to different sounds: bells, rattles, music.
- Gently "squeeze" the child, he likes it. From time to time gently massage his fingers, pens, legs.
- Both parents should play with the baby, both mom and dad. This is an important point in education.
- Read the child during the game nursery rhymes.
- Start to do with the baby physical exercise. Carefully spread the handles to the sides, and then cross over on the chest. Lower and raise the knobs and legs of the crumb.
Important third month after birth
It is in the third month of the development of crumbs thatrapid development. Every day you will notice how the neuropsychic state changes, and the physical functions of his body grow stronger. There will be changes in behavior. Everything will become more conscious. The child will look with curiosity at his hands, new objects. In communication, the kid already knows how to "tell" you about what is bothering him. And he will smile much more often. He will rejoice in everything new. All unfamiliar people bending over the crib, he will begin to greet with a smile. Now your baby does not want to just eat and sleep. He needs to communicate even more. The more you spend time with your baby in games and communication, the faster you will instill in him all the necessary social skills. Your baby will consciously touch, and grab hold of objects that you will offer him for the game. If this does not happen in the third month of the development of the child, you should always consult a doctor. During lactation, the baby will first turn its head in search of the nipple, and then with special zeal suck the milk. This is explained by the fact that he developed a sucking reflex. And now all the items that will fall into his hand, he will definitely suck. By the third month of life, the child holds his head well enough and actively turns it. Independently, he will be able to roll over from side to side, and in the process of playing actively picks up. Than to borrow or occupy the child with advantage or benefit:
- Show your child vivid pictures. Hang pictures above the crib and change them from time to time.
- Put into the handle crumbs different objects and material of different texture. So you will develop at it tactile sensations.
- Imitate the sounds that your child pleases you, repeat after him, looking into the eyes.
- Begin to do more active exercise: "bike" legs.
- Lower the toys a little lower over the baby so that he can reach them with his legs.
Development of a child up to the year: the fourth and fifth months
Now the kid is interesting to himself more than anytoys. An active process of "self-study" begins. During this period, the emotions of the baby are developing rapidly. He can show joy or sadness for the first time. Happy parents not only see the smile, but also hear the sonorous laughter of the baby. The kid begins to interact with the outside world and everything becomes interesting to him. Therefore, take your baby everywhere and everywhere. In the child's speech, more and more new sounds begin to appear, among which the long-awaited "ma-ma" jumps. We continue developing exercises:
- Practice physically only what the kid does, do not try to teach him anything else. Everything will come with time.
- Let's more often in the hands of new items. The kid will gladly study them.
- Develop the emotional sphere of the child. Tell him expressively fairy tales, read poetry.
- Use in your speech affectionate appeals to crumbs: "Rodnula", "Sonny", "Babe", "Doca", "Baby".
- Use when communicating physical games: toss, wiggle. Especially such games like dads.
Half a year of cognition of the world
Well, six months passed. By this time, the crumb can already independently take a toy in his hand and play with it. In addition, he will certainly taste it. Once the toy has been studied, interest in it immediately disappears and the baby drops it from her hands. At six months the child is already beginning to distinguish between the concepts of "one's own" and "another's". He does not react to all the stormy joy, but preliminarily studies a new person. Parents hear in the sounds, pronounced their lyalko clear requirements: "take in your arms," "I want to eat," "pay attention to me." The child already knows how to turn over from the abdomen on his back, brushes his feet on the crib, tries to drag on and rise on the legs. He completely controls his movements. We are engaged with the kid:
- Increase the number of bright toys and bright visual images.
- Show the child a reflection in the mirror, preferably in full growth. Let the child understand where he is and where his mother is.
- Let the child try different objects to the touch: a warm egg, a cold ice cube.
- Use at games various developing children's verses.
- Learn how to raise and lower the knobs, using the game moments.
Seventh and eighth month of development
Your little one is already aware of his "I" and beginsunderstand how you can influence them on your parents and the people around you. He is already more wary of foreign people, and he perceives his own with even greater affection. Sometimes it is during this period that the baby can not "tear off" from her mother's skirt. He wants to be with his mother everywhere: stroking her and splashing her hands, feeding her mother, pushing food into her mouth. Do not push the child away, indulge his desires. This you in no way spoil the baby, but only enhance his emotional sphere. Remember that in the first year of life, the mother should experience a physical and emotional intimacy with the child. Such affection will respond in a year thanks to the love and affection of your child. By this time, your child already knows how to sit down and, pulling himself up on the arms, to stand on the legs. The child starts actively crawling, taking objects in both hands, shifting them from one hand to another. Begins to develop fine motor skills of the hands and the little one with curiosity raises and drags into the mouth any small objects. Therefore, it is so important to monitor the safety of your baby and remove dangerous items away. Curiosity of the baby has no limit, and his favorite toys are pots and ladles, irons and mom's cosmetics, father's razor and grandfather's glasses. And rustling packages or tinsel and at all lead him into raptures. Anything that falls under the arm, the kid will consider, shake, lick, and then discard as unnecessary. The fact is that the concentration of attention begins to develop and the baby can set goals and solve them. The study of the entire apartment space in this period is its most important task. And the task of parents is not to leave a child alone at this age. Thoroughly close all dangerous items on a turnkey basis. Engage in useful games with your child:
- Roll it on your shoulders. Let him see the world from a height, and you will develop his balance.
- Roll it "on the leg."
- Collect a strip of obstacles for the baby from blankets and pillows. Let the carapace crawl not only on an even surface.
- When giving toys and objects to a child, be sure to name them: "doll", "ball", "cup", "spoon".
- Use in games educational toys: cubes, pyramids.
From nine to one year
The speed of the child's development is gaining momentum,the baby is difficult to stop during the movement. These are real "racers" with tremendous energy and physical potential. The child wants to have time everywhere and try everything. By this time, the kid learns to stand alone on his legs and even makes attempts at the first steps. There are children who, already ten months on their own, are pacing their feet. But the norm is the age from eleven months to a year. Many children alternate the process of crawling with walking, realizing that they crawl much faster than running around. Favorite games of the kid are catching up, hide and seek, ball game. The child constantly jumps, squats, does not allow to stop to the parents. Especially it is pleasant to the kid to imitate adults and to imitate various sounds. Favorite occupation is the knowledge of the apartment, and especially all kinds of small lockers and boxes. Classes with the child for a walk:
- Let every walk become an educational game. Tell and show the child all around. Call the items.
- Read poetry and sing songs.
- Ask the child questions: "How are you?", "Who is this?".
- Draw with the baby paints, pencils, semolina.
- Give the child the items that increase tactile perception: smooth paper, rough kiwi, sticky tape.
So, the development of a child up to a year is a swifttime for a change. The first year of life is important both for the child and for the parents. It is during this period that all the bases are laid for the further development of a healthy child, for a happy family life in harmony and in love. Whatever the difficult first year of bringing up your beloved, remember that you are responsible for his future.
