Anniversary of the wedding is always a pleasant event both in the life of the spouses themselves, and their relatives and friends.
About the traditions of celebrating
Tradition to celebrate the anniversary appeared about 200years ago, it so fell in love with the people that overgrown with all sorts of rituals, customs and rituals. In particular, it concerns the names of anniversaries. Traditionally they come from the most fragile material, like paper, to the hardest and most precious (gold, diamond, oak). Such names symbolize the strengthening of the marriage union of the young, which every year becomes stronger and more invulnerable. Conducted together 3 years is usually called a leather wedding. There are two interpretations of the name of this anniversary:
Of course, not everything was cloudless. For 3 years accumulated luggage of mutual claims, grievances, squabbles and household trivia. Psychologists do not just define the third year of joint life as one of the crisis. Therefore, before the celebration of the anniversary it is desirable to try to leave all the troubles in the past, because they are already experienced. Many psychotherapists recommend that spouses ask each other for forgiveness for free and involuntary difficulties or grievances. Make peace with relatives if the relationship has cracked. Specialists in bioenergetics recommend starting general cleaning:
- repair leaky clothes,
- ventilate the premises,
- throw out the cracked dishes,
- get rid of all the uncomfortable or unpleasant,
- wash the mirrors,
- view the contents of cabinets.
Approximately the same is recommended withrelations: to reject the raid of everyday life and boredom, briefly forget about everyday cares, to experiment to return paints and exciting sensations. It should be remembered that loving hearts will cope with any troubles and crises, so do not be afraid of them. The figure "3" is associated with ruby, blood-red and pink flowers, so it will be logical to put them on the day of celebrating the anniversary. Also, it is good for spouses to have something leather on themselves: a jacket, shoes, a belt, a skirt, a handbag. Suits both genuine leather and suede. It is better to wear a leather object all day long. Table in honor of the wedding: what should be? Must have a loaf of rye bread. From his wife break off a piece each and eat in front of the guests. The first dish is "bread soup". This is an ordinary meat broth, into which rye bread crumbles. This dish symbolizes a strong connection between spouses, their relatives and friends. If someone close could not come to the holiday for health reasons or other reasons, according to the old custom, the couple sends them a gift of several red fruits, usually apples, although others are allowed, for example grenades. Red color symbolizes faithful love and true friendship. It is also considered necessary to beat the dishes with young ones, and it is desirable that the fragments should be as small as possible - then the family will be rich and happy. Loud noise from the spouses driven away evil spirits. The first dance is traditionally danced by the culprits of the celebration. At the end of the spouses are sprinkled with grains of rye. The third anniversary is considered to be a happy and happy time, when life is filled with optimism and inspiration, for no reason the three are considered sacred, so it is worth celebrating. This anniversary opens new pages of life together, so that young people can learn the wonderful family world together.
A gift to her husband on her wedding day
Anniversary of the wedding: what to give? Without an answer, this question can not be left at all. Traditional gifts are associated with the name of the anniversary, so it is appropriate to give products made of leather (natural or suede):
- leather key chain,
- a case for glasses,
- decorated with a skin flask,
- cover for a passport,
- money clip,
- notebook or diary,
- a watch with a leather strap,
- cigarette case.
A gift can be more practical: leather jacket, shoes or other products, if it is customary in the family. It is important not to forget to put money in a purse or purse, so that they are constantly there. To give an empty purse is not only ugly, but even rude. Choosing what to give, you should consider the tastes of a person. If he occupies a solid position, it is unlikely he will have to taste hare ears on gloves. If there is no certainty, it's better to stop at the classics - it's a win-win option. If a leather gift is too expensive or the husband is an active participant in the movement for the protection of animal rights, it is better to depart from the tradition and make a non-topic gift. Think, maybe my husband broke the player, but he likes to listen to music, or his favorite band comes to the city, or maybe it's time to think about a new phone? Three years spent together, probably allowed to study his tastes and preferences, so decide what to give, it will be quite easy.
A gift to his wife on his wedding day
If we start from the name of the anniversary, it is clear that giving your wife will also have leather things. Rarely, what woman refuses:
- leather designer bag,
- leather coat,
- skirt or jacket made of genuine leather,
- shoes or boots.
If the budget is limited, you can stop ata leather clutch, a purse, a case for a phone, a belt, a cosmetic bag, a bracelet or jewelry made of leather. Now you can find leather cards, hair clips, ornaments. They can be bought on their own or done at special master classes - the wife's delight will not be limited. The main thing is to approach the choice of a gift responsibly, because the wedding and the subsequent family life have changed a lot in life. Choosing what to give the second half, in any case, do not forget about the bouquet. Be sure to spoil your wife with a bouquet of her favorite flowers, because for women they never happen much. Valuable in women and romantic gifts: dinner in a restaurant, a voucher for two, fireworks in her honor. Even with the most modest budget, you can light candles at home and cook dinner yourself. Most of all, a woman appreciates attention, especially from her beloved husband. so do not hesitate to fantasize and implement the boldest ideas.
Gift for a couple on wedding day
Traditionally, the parents of spouses give moresolid gifts to their children than other relatives. A good option for the third anniversary may be a leather sofa or chairs. Think, maybe they finished the repair in the living room and have not had time to get the furniture? Or until they like a set they can not afford. If financial opportunities allow, and the spouses are not against leather furniture, the gift will be received with a bang. An alternative is a leather armchair in the office, a corner in the kitchen or a leather bed. Such a stylish and impressive thing will decorate any room. Among the less cumbersome options can be:
- photo album in leather binding,
- stylish suitcase or travel bag,
- a picture of pieces of leather,
- decorated with leather casket,
- wall or desk clock,
- Photo frame,
- a leather-decorated vase,
- housekeeper in the hall,
- book-safe or a book-bar,
- a set of wine glasses in a leather case.
Never be a superfluous bottle of elite alcohol. If you have a warm relationship with a couple, you can make a photo collage or presentation with comments about their three-year life together, order a stylized newspaper or a genealogical book. If a couple is rather democratic in clothes and has a good sense of humor, you can give pair t-shirts with funny inscriptions or pictures. Try to focus on what the spouses like, and you can easily pick up the best gift.